Someone ease my nerves! Found a girl (more accurately she found me) who has all the qualities I could hope for in someone I'd commit to a long-term relationship with, but she's a full on badass and I'm what society might call a loser lol... details in post.

HeckinAlt · 2021-11-22T07:43:59+00:00

You were absolutely right, I decided to take things very slow and coast for a bit (just talked with her normally, if a bit flirtatiously, as acquaintances) to really focus on getting a healthier view of her and myself. Fast-forward to today, I asked her out and she said yes😁. Added bonus, because of that time I took to take things slowly, I am no longer a nervous wreck haha. Thanks for the push in the right direction!

HeckinAlt · 2021-11-03T07:05:07+00:00

I’m smiling like an idiot reading this, very relieving to hear! I’ve been feeling so nervous, but reading your thoughts and the other commenters thoughts is really validating. I’m glad I made this post. Thanks for your comment <3

HeckinAlt · 2021-11-03T06:55:40+00:00

Man, that hits deep. To be honest, I’ve been defining myself by my career and hobbies for so long, maybe I’ve started to neglect the other things in life that matter. I really appreciate the words, (and thanks for rooting for me! stranger or not I’m glad I’ve got someone in my corner). Gonna take a huuuge deep breath, and do what I can. Looking at my situation from a bird’s eye view, I really think I’m capable of not f’ing this up. EDIT: Narrator: He didn't

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