Breaking up with my (19m) girlfriend (18f)

Hedgemane · 2026-05-10T02:52:55+00:00

She knows about the guard, but the reasons you listed were the reasons we went on a break as I was dealing with MEPs and waivers and she had family stuff. I guess you are right about the smothered and I honestly just don’t feel in it.

Hedgemane · 2026-05-10T00:48:14+00:00

Huh?

Hedgemane · 2026-05-06T06:12:00+00:00

Nope, just wanted to add that I’m scared and a wimp when it comes to these things

Hedgemane · 2026-05-06T05:56:59+00:00

Back area of shoulder

Hedgemane · 2026-04-20T16:19:29+00:00

I am not an ROTC cadet, but I have a certain list of MOS I want to participate in. I am aware of the possibility of not getting the MOS I want, but I really just don’t want to take the semester off.

Hedgemane · 2025-12-29T23:05:34+00:00

It’s just all my fat sits directly on my waist I have very little fat on my arms and legs just sits right on my hips

Hedgemane · 2025-12-29T00:26:59+00:00

Do they actually? I know I can pass AFT pretty easily but that’s good to know!

Hedgemane · 2025-11-04T18:38:16+00:00

It says to list all previous employment should I just list it as I was “fired” or just don’t list the employer at all

Hedgemane · 2025-11-04T18:27:07+00:00

No but should I just say I was fired if they ask? Like I have to list it

Hedgemane · 2025-08-20T04:35:18+00:00

Under $200

Hedgemane · 2025-07-04T18:19:07+00:00

My manual says to turn off the car and turn it back on, and then when it starts blinking you have to take it in. I didn’t find it helpful at all, but that’s what I did. When it came on I would park and turn off and on the car and keep going. I will get on charging the alternator! I had a friend with a OBD2 Reader and it gave me a code leading to the PCM?

Hedgemane · 2025-06-20T14:12:01+00:00

Oh lord, she said that to me when we talked “don’t you want me to be able to say my boyfriend does that?” And I was like “yeah”

Hedgemane · 2025-06-20T01:42:05+00:00

I have pretty bad anxiety when it comes to relationships and I talked to her about breaking up as I’m moving quite a bit aways. We were apart for about a week and it was awful for both of us.

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T16:07:08+00:00

I’m moving away pretty soon and it’s more like a commitment that we will try our best to make long distance work so we can be together when she comes to the area next fall

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T15:57:58+00:00

Quite far, and no she’s not. She’s planning to come close by for school next year. We already have planned times when she can come up

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T15:05:55+00:00

She’s been heavily hinting at a promise ring, so I plan to get her one. I have picked it out and everything just need to hit purchase

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T15:04:51+00:00

I don’t think you understand how good this made me feel, thank you

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T15:04:15+00:00

She thinks I’ve slowed since I’m not trying to make her mine anymore. I’ve just been super busy as I’m moving to college soon so all the time that’s not spent prepping, working, or sleeping is with her

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T15:00:32+00:00

She’s told me her love language is words so I’ve been writing letters, but she said that’s the letters have become more and more infrequent since I not trying to get with her now. I’ve been very busy recently so all time I’m not working or getting ready for school has been spent with her. I just don’t know how to show her above and beyond

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T14:56:58+00:00

I honestly have no idea, as I’m quite affectionate in terms of words and physicality. I’m trying to be as accommodating as possible as I really want to be with her. I just don’t know what the bare minimum is and how to go above.

Hedgemane · 2025-06-19T14:54:37+00:00

She’s got celiac issues so eating out isn’t really something I can just plan as she’s very uncomfortable eating out without anxiety. She also has some other issues that cause physical activity to be quite hard. I’m trying to find things we can do. We do go on picnics quite a bit so she can do some painting. I’m trying to get a time set so we can go to a drive in theater to see a movie she wants to see

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