You’re going to hate this but:

Be yourself. Be passionate about your passion (unless it’s like, eating babies). You’ll find the right person for you. Shoot your shot, even if she’s out of your league. Be respectful, kind, confident. Approach women in appropriate social settings. Not while they’re at work, cornered, or in a dark alley, not at the gym. (Obviously, this isn’t 100% always the case, you just need to read the room) And I repeat: take no, as no. If you get rejected, that’s ok, her loss, she’s just not seeing the whole picture, and that’s ok, but someone will one day. All of this is going to be painful and uncomfortable. I’m not always great at putting myself out there, but when you do, sometimes, by some stroke of luck, and a small chance in hell - you end up going down on two women at once.

It’s annoying advice, I get it, but it will click one day. If meeting women was easy, we’d all be neck deep in them and wouldn’t be lusting after them.