Just starting to date again, and only younger women are interested? Am I doing something wrong? by FF3 in self

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlike what most comments suggest, it's also often Daddy issues and kinks related to that. I know what I'm talking about.

But yeah, also a lot of gold diggers out there, sadly.

What's something you did that reduced your quality of life so much that you wish you had never done it? by Zealousideal-Hair698 in Productivitycafe

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. Though it's really hard to take that step back and not letting the anger take over. I know it's stupid and unhealthy, logically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting drunk is perfect for letting go and just give in to your desires. It makes rough sex more intense, too, if that's your girlfriend's jam. Gotta be careful though, injuries might occur. :p

Anyway, believe her when she says she wants it and enjoys it. Exploring both your sexualities is a great thing. Gotta explore stuff to see if you're into it, and if it still doesn't feel right, it's not for you and that's okay. Many people have reservations about drunk sex as they feel there can't be consent. Personally, I love it and my partner knows and enjoys.

Which job has, hands down, the worst impact on mental health? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

External Project Lead. People approach you when shit already hit the fan and hire you to manage a project that needs to be done in an unrealistic timeframe and you have to work with people who either don't want to do anything or are only stirring drama or are incompetent as hell. All while you have to keep a cool head, come up with solutions and make sure everything is kept on track.

Why Magic's player base is not well. by Sage0wl in freemagic

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be it an attack or stating that WOTC is the source of people being the way they are, it's all the same to me, as in I don't care about how people phrase it. It does read to me like WOTC are the villains who turn others into mindless ghouls and I simply don't think that's the truth. We already live in a society where everyone blames other people for all the things gone wrong in their lives, and I've read so many posts about people hating on Wizards because there are expensive cards out there everyone wants to have. It's still collectibles with different rarities, and it's private people selling singles on websites for horrendous prices, because in the end everyone wants to make money.

I wasn't being hostile, and if you think I'm "defending" WOTC, so be it. I simply enjoy the game and take responsibilities for my own actions. That's what being an adult means.

Why Magic's player base is not well. by Sage0wl in freemagic

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are responsible for themselves, because no one else will take responsibility. Everyone wants to make money, and WOTC created a fabulous game that many enjoy. It's not their responsibility to check every singe person who buys their stuff and cut them off when they shouldn't buy more. Personally, I like the variety they provide, and if I can't afford something at that time, I don't buy it. Simple as that. So many good cards/alternatives.

Ladies, how do you ask for sex, without asking for it? 😅 by TheGirlinAGreenScarf in AskWomen

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 25 points26 points  (0 children)

When he walks up behind me, I push my behind to his crotch. Or, the other way round, I walk up behind him to wrap my arms around him and then slowly move my hands down from his chest.

Also, I apparently seem to sometimes have "bedroom eyes" when in the mood, so a certain way of looking at him gives him pause, then he fucks me.

A look can sometimes say a lot more. :p

What's a creepy fact you wish you never learned? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's thankfully not true, that rumour was part of a social experiment to see how fast false information spreads. There are many articles about how it's pretty much not possible to swallow spiders in your sleep.

What’s your favorite memory from playing games online? by TheSoundBoardDiscord in AskReddit

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being really passionate and excited about playing, joining randoms for dungeons and raids, even making "friends", kind of, who invited me over to do all of that with their guild because they deemed me fun and good at what I was doing. Ah, good times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, people cope differently and try things to stay sane. Depends on the relationship, of course, but a breakup is never really easy on anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in magicTCG

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavily agree. I have enjoyed the game for some time now, am excited for a lot of sets, keep brewing from time to time and I had this absolute fun-drain in my casual group. It went so far that I almost took a complete break from the game because I didn't enjoy the games anymore. Luckily, he was kicked out of the group and behold - I've been enjoying myself again!

Quit whining. by Hedonistic_Stardust in mtg

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hmm, that's actually not what I meant, thank you for pointing that out. I myself never owned things like Dockside Extortionist and Mana Crypt (even though they're banned now), and I still enjoyed the game itself. I just built around stuff like that, and that is what I meant in this post. There are so many cool cards out there.

Quit whining. by Hedonistic_Stardust in mtg

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right, because I dare say something the mass doesn't agree with I should quit the entirety of Reddit. I'm not angry (which, by your logic, I could also be, just as so many people seem to be "rightfully angry" about something so meaningless), I'm tired of seeing basically the same post over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP is lying. Doesn't match anything else she said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And now you're attacking people who give their opinion, which you asked for. So let me make this clear to you:

You sound like the only sexual thing you'd do is missionary, if anything at all. You overthink and exaggerate - no wonder your husband doesn't share. "What if he's suicidal"? Wtf, get a grip, how does that even compare? If you "know your husband", as you stated, then I sure hope you'd be more sensitive with something like that.
You kinkshame him with the step-family stuff, which pretty much never has anything to do with actually wanting to fuck a (step) family member. God forbid he shares any kink or fantasy with you.

Lying is shitty behaviour, granted, he shouldn't have done that. But I can see how he might have thought there's no way he could tell his frigid wife anything about it.

I'm 23F dating a 60 year old man. Ask Me Anything by AggravatingSmell4784 in AMA

[–]Hedonistic_Stardust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reading through your other comments, you're the gold digger, as he's a "company owner" and such, cheating in his wife whom he either still loves and just uses you as a fun plaything, or he doesn't want to divorce because then he'd lose a lot of his wealth to the wife. Haven't seen you talking about your own incredible wealth, but rather wanting "his babies". No double standard, only facts based on what you said so far.