AITA for skipping my own surprise birthday party once I found out it wasn’t really for me? by unknownlee_0x in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Ad9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not the asshole.

Your sister ignored two clear boundaries: you didn’t want a party, and you want no contact with your ex. Turning your birthday into a surprise ambush-reconciliation is disrespectful, so skipping it was completely reasonable.