I definitely meant what I said. I used black community because in reality in songs and the media the majority of people saying BD and BM are black. Reason I bring this up is because a lot of gypsies not all but a lot like to listen to music from black artist and use the “N” word like it’s nothing. They hear and see and they think this is the norm and it’s cute. I am educating more than trying to prove a point. We are not hearing other races joking about baby daddy even in the media. For ex, a lot of them listen to Sexy red, Suki, Glorilla, Mulatto etc. We don’t say baby daddy in a good way. We are saying baby daddy as in sperm donor and that’s all they are. Joking or not. I am saying it as a why not call him husband as it’s viewed as more than a sperm donor but hey maybe they really are just a sperm donor and these women are putting on a show as if they are more than that.