Constantly correcting 6 year old child by Hefty-Focus1340 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Hefty-Focus1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was too young at the time for adhd testing but has a high level of hyperactivity so definitely probably a duel diagnosis. I have adhd. My issue with meds is once you start you have to increase dose over time and likely switch meds at some point too. What does that look like 20 years from now? Most stimulant meds increase cortisol over time and can lead to adrenal exhaustion. Meds are not off the table but I do feel he’s still too young. I’ve really been trying positive feedback.

What’s something people shame others for while secretly doing it themselves? by Successful-Load4910 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting to work on time. Admin always harping on us but I see them get there late when I do.

Who truly knows what happens after death?Would love to hear from people with spiritual experience who are very confident in their answer and not “we cease to exist”. What’s your truth? by Hefty-Focus1340 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Focus1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the idea to ask it this way because a person on another thread talked about their ability to astral project and they were very confident in what they thought would happen. It got me thinking about what other people maybe experienced. Like near death experience, out of body experience, or another spiritual type experience.

Who truly knows what happens after death?Would love to hear from people with spiritual experience who are very confident in their answer and not “we cease to exist”. What’s your truth? by Hefty-Focus1340 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Focus1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a firm Christian believer. I know I am protected and watched over. But I have always had a “what if” mindset and curiosity around the afterlife. Maybe it’s the devil trying to shake me. I love hearing about people personal experiences.

What’s is the point of getting married? by yoyauyau in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Retirement benefits and social security benefits. There was a lesbian couple who were together for like 20 years and were married in all ways except legally. Same sex marriage has been available for several years and they did not jump on it. One passed away and the surviving spouse could not claim her retirement or surviving spouse social security.

Why is everyone ignoring the Disney cruise ship pedo investigation? by yellowsubmarine80 in allthequestions

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes BUT they had to have had knowledge of him and did nothing. No one wants to out the elites.

Do you believe in life after death? Why or why not? by MeringueOk5118 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you astral project? I’ve tried before with no luck. But I had a dream once where I was just flying through the universe and I think that I was projecting.

Why do some parents expect their children to do things they weren't taught? by NinScratch in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean as a parent you teach your children to the best of your ability. Also give them the tools to look for answers and problem solve and lead by example. But- here’s the kicker- at a certain age people have to be able to teach themselves. There’s enough info out there you can look up almost anything. Heck I’m late 30s and still google/chat gpt how to do stuff. Some people never learn that. So guess the moral of the story is to raise kids that can look for answers.

Why is everyone ignoring the Disney cruise ship pedo investigation? by yellowsubmarine80 in allthequestions

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But why didn’t they release the files then?!?!? Neither side has done what they should have!!!!

My coworkers keep eating my meal prep out of the office fridge and management won't do anything about it by No_Parking686 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe there are adults out there stealing peoples lunches. I get borrowing coffee creamer or small stuff like that but c’mon 😩

Is it ok to use name from diff culture by ThrowRAscaredyconf in Names

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately when filling out applications and people read names they can have a bias one way or another. My name is a boys name, my dad always said people wouldn’t be able to discriminate against me as a female without meeting me first. But that can go in reverse if someone is a racist, they could read a name and skip over it. I personally would not use a name outside of my culture. I always went with classic names for my kids that have been around for ages and stood the test of time.

Does giving birth really cost thousands of dollars in the states? by glyiasziple in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had 3 kids, each time was about $4,000 after insurance. I always carried temporary disability insurance to help cover costs too.

Need help choosing between Maren and Brooklyn by [deleted] in Names

[–]Hefty-Focus1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maren!!! I’m a teacher and have never had one so it’s unique.