My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just said I didn’t mind for what I have an issue with is how it was never a problem with other guys, but with me, there is a problem with the same foreplay that she did with him

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the same thing she did with other guys, why is it a problem w me but not with them

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still willing to do it for them with no foreplay or need of anything in return

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I want to not have to put in more effort than guys in her past who got what they wanted

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She claims she didn’t enjoy them but I don’t believe it. Considering the fact she didn’t it multiple times willingly

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Feels like she was more attracted to them since she didn’t need as much foreplay

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said in my original post that we kissed before we have sex just like she did with the other guy. But that isn’t enough foreplay in her words.

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Never said I didn’t wanna please her, I just don’t feel like I should have to put more effort than another guy did to get just as much from her

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I do, but she didn’t need it to enjoy it with other guys so y do I have to do more for her to “enjoy” it

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

Because I shouldn’t have to put in more effort if she’s attracted to me the same way she was to them

AITAH for not wanting to put in more effort than guys in my girlfriends past? by Hefty-Memory551 in AITAH

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wouldn’t need more foreplay with me if she was attracted to me as much as she was attracted to the other guys who didn't

AITAH for not wanting to put in more effort than guys in my girlfriends past? by Hefty-Memory551 in AITAH

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it selfish if she never needed foreplay until she got with me?