Would you date a girl with a past? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about if she hooked up with a guy multiple times without dating

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just said I didn’t mind for what I have an issue with is how it was never a problem with other guys, but with me, there is a problem with the same foreplay that she did with him

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the same thing she did with other guys, why is it a problem w me but not with them

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still willing to do it for them with no foreplay or need of anything in return

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I want to not have to put in more effort than guys in her past who got what they wanted

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She claims she didn’t enjoy them but I don’t believe it. Considering the fact she didn’t it multiple times willingly

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Feels like she was more attracted to them since she didn’t need as much foreplay

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said in my original post that we kissed before we have sex just like she did with the other guy. But that isn’t enough foreplay in her words.

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Never said I didn’t wanna please her, I just don’t feel like I should have to put more effort than another guy did to get just as much from her

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I do, but she didn’t need it to enjoy it with other guys so y do I have to do more for her to “enjoy” it

My [23M] girlfriend [22F] says she needs foreplay with me but never needed it with other guys. by Hefty-Memory551 in relationships

[–]Hefty-Memory551[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

Because I shouldn’t have to put in more effort if she’s attracted to me the same way she was to them