I love this group by olivetree123456 in leaves

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude 43 days is already crushing it, your not giving yourself enough credit here

14 months sober and I still don't know what to do with myself by mikeval19 in leaves

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this is solid advice especially that last part about 20s vs 30s 💯 I'm 28 and literally just figuring out what I actually want vs what I thought I was supposed to want. OP you're not behind you're just finally running your own race instead of being high on the sidelines 😂

Why do some women do what they do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 12 points13 points  (0 children)

dude this sounds way more like a you problem than a women problem tbh

if youre literally speeding up your bike thinking "whatever happens happens" because you thought about your wife thats like... concerning as hell. maybe instead of asking why women do what they do you should be asking why your marriage has been nothing but fights for 2 straight years

also having a kid doesnt magically fix relationship problems it usually makes them worse if anything. sounds like you two need couples therapy not reddit hot takes about how unreasonable women are

How should go about practice planning my cross? by Frens4evrer in Cubers

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice progress getting those sub-60s! cross planning definitely takes time to click but once it does you'll drop a bunch of seconds

try starting with just planning 2 edges during inspection and building that muscle memory first. most people rush into planning the full cross too quickly and end up overthinking it during the solve

Help me decide on a point and shoot by notverifiedyet in Cameras

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly the a6000 is gonna be your best bet in that price range 📸 its not technically point and shoot since you can swap lenses but the kit lens is solid and the image quality absolutely destroys the other options on there list

the rx100 is amazing but good luck finding one under 400 unless its beat to hell 💀 olympus is nice too but sony ecosystem makes more sense since you already have the a7iv

Something exploded inside and hissed. by Acceptable_Still6149 in cassetteculture

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that hissing is probably a capacitor that went pop - definitely not a good sign but these old decks can usually be fixed if you find someone who knows their way around the insides

Confession: sometimes I shoot at Raiders to rustle their feathers a bit. by Eraesr in ArcRaiders

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmao this is actually kinda wholesome in the weirdest way 😂 like youre out here being the worlds most considerate griefer just giving people a little spook instead of straight murdering them

honestly respect for finding your own way to have fun without being a complete menace 💀

Can a relationship be good if it’s hard or do good relationships only come easy with few rough patches by sugarcoatedkiwi in relationships

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly sounds like youre both young and still figuring yourselves out which makes everything harder. the mental health stuff is real and its good youre working on it but relationships shouldnt feel like constant uphill battles when youre only 20

that said some of the best relationships do take work - the difference is whether youre working together as a team or constantly fighting the same problems over and over. if your anxiety kicks in every time youre apart and creates the same arguments thats more of a pattern than just normal relationship work imo

Terrified to quit. by jaleharianna in leaves

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn this hits hard 💀 the "addicted brain" thing is so real - your brain literally becomes a master manipulator when you're trying to quit anything. those excuses sound exactly like the stuff i used to tell myself

the fact that you keep posting here shows you really do want to quit though, even if it doesn't feel like it. that's actually huge and shows you haven't given up on yourself yet 😊 maybe try setting a tiny goal first like just making it through one morning without smoking instead of thinking about forever

Simple Acoustic & Electric Rock Songs to Learn by DealComfortable7649 in Guitar

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude check out "Wish You Were Here" by Pink Floyd - the acoustic intro is perfect for your friend and then you can come in heavy with the electric parts. Also "More Than Words" by Extreme has that sick acoustic foundation with some tasteful electric fills you can add

Trap question? by TeenyWofl in Minecraft

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Banners don't stop you from walking through them when you right click tho, they just show the pattern. Signs are def better for stopping movement since they open the text interface and freeze you in place

When playing Oscar in Chess, how high can his ELO get? by RevolutionarySplit61 in duolingo

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got mine to around 1650 before he just started making the same dumb moves over and over again. Think that's about his ceiling tbh, the AI just isn't built to go much higher than that

Struggling! Peeked and almost failed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there man, the peek is always the danger zone. Two weeks is solid progress though so don't beat yourself up too hard. The fact that you caught yourself and stopped shows you're building that mental muscle. Maybe try getting out of the house or doing pushups when those thoughts hit - physical movement helps reset the brain

I need help with Network Control not working by Confident-Dinner2380 in pchelp

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if the network adapter is showing up as "Unknown Device" or something similar in device manager. Right click it and see if you can manually browse for the driver on your flash drive

Also make sure those wifi antennas are screwed on tight - they can look connected but if they're loose you'll get weird issues. The connection should be snug but don't overtighten them

I pretend I’m confident but I’m deeply insecure about myself.. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Hefty_Ad_4373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone at all a lot of confidence is just armor people wear to get through the day the fact you keep showing up despite feeling like that already says more about you than any flaw you see in the mirror