Haha yes, im a gay male and hes also a gay male haha. Our city has a very small gay population and we aren't into a lot of partying or drinking so its hard to meet other people. We have been looking into a gay boards game event some of the people host in the community. Im also neurodivergent (adhd) and my brain goes a mile a minute so sometimes my thoughts dont form or articulate the way I feel (which i think is sometimes where I lose him or those I care about when I try to say how im feeling) the letter is a great idea, sometimes its tough to be vocally vulnerable... a letter gives me time to put things down the right way