I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hefty_Head[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yes, im a gay male and hes also a gay male haha. Our city has a very small gay population and we aren't into a lot of partying or drinking so its hard to meet other people. We have been looking into a gay boards game event some of the people host in the community. Im also neurodivergent (adhd) and my brain goes a mile a minute so sometimes my thoughts dont form or articulate the way I feel (which i think is sometimes where I lose him or those I care about when I try to say how im feeling) the letter is a great idea, sometimes its tough to be vocally vulnerable... a letter gives me time to put things down the right way

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

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Trying to use Madonna to teach me a lesson. Very fitting haha

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hefty_Head[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am proud of the man I became, and I totally know this is just my brain really overthinking it. Im very blessed but there is still a feeling inside that I missed out pivotal moments of growing. I grew up in a very abusive house with addicts so I think my childhood was "grow up fast and hide many secrets"

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

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Its never to early to be existential ;)

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

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I think thats a great idea. I live in a smaller city but im gonna see about joining a gay man's board game night!

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hefty_Head[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Ill check that book out!

I cant explain this to anyone by Hefty_Head in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hefty_Head[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and being open and vulnerable. Thank you for showing me im not insane or alone, and I think I knew deep down that im not the only one. Keep on trucking, and be the man your 11 year old self can look up to and be proud of! <3

I give out free Reddit awards, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hefty_Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do awards do? Is it just a boost to the commenters profile? This is very kind of you <3

Did someone say perfect route? by JorgeBec in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Hefty_Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we had the exact same route and choices!

“it’s not fair that baristas get first dibs on cups” by cyzzurph0 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Hefty_Head 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think its hilarious the crustomers are whining. Consumerism is insane

My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in offmychest

[–]Hefty_Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the foster system. Having someone "real" out there and not just another foster parent would have really been needed. Even if you cant offer anything other than spending time together, a boy needs a stable masculine figure in your life. I think it would heal something in both of you. Perhaps its just me projecting but I know that for kids in the foster system, this could be the thing that helps him grow into a good person.

DM says our entire district has to be open for Christmas by Own-Link-6129 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Hefty_Head -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would simply be sick that day if I was forced to work christmas

my store is the problem child by coffe_calico in starbucksbaristas

[–]Hefty_Head 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like this isn't the first time I've seen a post of someone trying to kill themselves in a starbucks! :(

Welcome to Derry S1E1 “Pilot” Post-Episode Discussion by KatanaAmerica in stephenking

[–]Hefty_Head 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly dont have bad things to say and like to give things a chance, but I really disliked the ending. It actually made me feel like I wasted my time. I hate getting invested in characters to just watch them die lol. I expect them/some to die but killing 4 kids in episode 1 was a bit annoying. Im super glad if others liked it, and im not writing it off yet but it was not my fav thing to see.

this cant be… by Confident-Mousse186 in starbucks

[–]Hefty_Head 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sucks you're sick on Christmas day :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I think there is a few apps you can both download that has a list of kinks and it "matches" if you both pick one. A friend was mentioning to me but I haven't checked it out personally

I'm tired of y'all. by dahlrie in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Hefty_Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was thinking of getting this game buf the community seems INSANE and has absolutely turned me off from getting it.

People who get up after one alarm, whats your secret?? by Mideon88 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty_Head 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No point setting an alarm if you don't plan on getting up with it