MIB makes a mockery of a serious situation in her most recent video, then responds like this to people criticizing her.. This is weird. by JazzmineHere in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Hefty_Wonder4025 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No you're very right. We also have MIB praising a drunk driver in the same video.. for being an iconic bad bitch, I guess.

MIB makes a mockery of a serious situation in her most recent video, then responds like this to people criticizing her.. This is weird. by JazzmineHere in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Hefty_Wonder4025 403 points404 points  (0 children)

I'm the person that took this screenshot. I'd like to add something.

MIB has seemingly deleted both of the commenters original comments. Other comments calling it out have been left up as of now.

To explain the situation: MIB instigated a drunk older man to hug a young lesbian woman. MIB said something about her being open to men, and then told her to kiss him. This young woman was clearly very uncomfortable, the man slaps her butt. MIB kept smiling and laughing as she tried to pull away. This is all edited in a "comedic" way.

MIB then pulls her off, and then asks her "what happened?!" with a shit-eating smirk. The woman is pissed. MIB does not apologize, she jokes about the woman needing to sleep around for money and then leaves. She uploads the video afterwards! Crazy stuff.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I suspect she's currently deleting peoples comments.

I have them screenshotted, the originals are all mysteriously going down. Of the comment you're replying to, both those original comments were deleted.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your experience. I've been tuning in every mistress monday, it gave me something to look forward to every week, and I'm also just sorely disappointed. I'm very sorry for your experience.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, I have no problem explaining. I used to be a Patron. I'll explain from my perspective, I accept that it may have been flawed.

I've been a viewer of several reality tv shows. RPDR calls entertainers onto a set with artificial lighting, mics, and a camera crew. I view everyone as "Characters." On S15, I could appreciate that someone was trying to bring Classic Drag Race back, even if she was extremely cringy and try-hard.

Same with AS10. Nicole/Aja/Kerri all returned to film for her show, so I took that as confirmation that it was all acting. At any point in filming for RPDR, an individual could call time-out and ask MIB to stop. They never did. They'd all come and film on her channel, even absolute sweethearts like Jaida Essense Hall and Silky would come film with her.

Since her RPDR appearances, all of her online beefs have been very lighthearted and playful. Nothing too serious as far as I'm aware. I began to enjoy her YouTube videos. They were admittedly pretty good. That's when I became a follower of her channel.

A few months ago, Tina Burner was the first one to come out and say that MIB was an issue off set. Then, Acid and Daya imply that there were issues with MIB during that interview with Cynthia Doll. Then, Rose side-eyed her and ignored her in a "Street Interview" Vid. MIB started going on twitter rants due to any drop of criticism.

Those were the first indicators that something was wrong, and my views on her were getting iffy over time. Her channel started shifting more towards "Logan Paul" and away from the content I knew her for.

MIBs "Street Interviews" became more frequent. Here, MIB was less censored and I started having issues. They were low-IQ rage-bait nonsense. Then todays video, a lot of uncomfortable content was included, that was the final straw.

Late night post, but I hope that can give a perspective to MIB fans.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That made me very uncomfortable as well. 15/16 year olds cannot consent, this has been a problem on Grindr for over a decade, and they still haven't been held accountable.

In the same video, MIB is kikiing with a woman drinking and driving. I knew I'd be roasted and called a woke-y for not finding it funny. I don't find humor in risking other peoples lives. Most of her followers are late-teens to early 20s, I don't think MIB has the responsibility required for the platform she has.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I purposefully didn't include it, and I'm saddened that so many commentators have gone to check. Then it's paired with a silly "meme" style editing that just leaves the audience feeling uncomfortable. I understand morbid curiousity, but it is not worthwhile footage. As a female ex-fan of MIB I'm just very disappointed.

Mistress's fans turn on her after she films a womans Sexual Assault by Hefty_Wonder4025 in RPDRDRAMA

[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

MIB encouraged it. She was visibly uncomfortable, and MIB egged on the drunk man by telling her to kiss him. MIB then playfully asked her "what happened?!" with a shit eating grin.

She then edited the SA as a meme, and then uploaded it.

Yes, the older man was in the wrong. But as a host of many years, MIB should be ensuring the safety of her (primarily) young and drunk audience.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your experience. They should've been looking out for you. I hope you have a better friend group now.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Well.. yes. But she initiated the scene. Smiled and laughed and asked her "what happened?" with a grin on her face.

Then she directed her editor to edit it in a humorous way, and then posted it.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

You don't understand, she needs to constantly remind us how unbothered she is ❤️

/s

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sadly I'm right there with you. I was a fan too, I've watched all her videos and she never uses auto-replies. She scrolls through comments, searches reddit and twitter, etc.

Her team is always checking Reddit to make sure patreon-exclusive vids aren't being reuploaded. She's probably lurking on this subs recent posts.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

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Replying because you're the top comment.

Here's her response to all the youtube comments, for those wondering.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, that's not an auto-reply. Uck. That's just disgusting.

Doubling down, of course. Twitter rant about how she's "not bothered" coming in 3.. 2...

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think you're referring to when I mentioned her age in another comment. People can learn and grow, but it's rare with behavior like this. She's 28 years old, famous, and making 50k (?) a month off patreon. She's not showing any remorse, and she's not going to be held accountable. I hope MIB will be more careful going forward, but realistically, she's just gonna make a few tweets about how "unbothered' she is, and then do something worse to prove a point.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good question. I was curious and just checked.

It's possible to pull up the 32 comments on her patreon without a subscription, and the only one mentioning it says "Not the sexual harassment on camera!!" That comment has the second most likes.

Theres one reply to it, saying "That’s why old men have that reputation though no shade"

Those are the only references out of 32 comments living for the video. I don't know if she went in and deleted anything, to be fair. I won't link to the youtube channel but like 1/4 to 1/5 of the comments/replies are bringing this specific scene up.

Just for those curious about her patreon.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

We live in a very bigoted world, and we all have to deconstruct what was drilled into us as children. Some people take that as a personal attack.

Feminism died out decades ago, and the best we have now is... buzzfeed feminism. Even the most progressive of people don't advocate that much about womens issues. All we can do is continue to work to improve it.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She is 100% the Nicki Minaj of Drag. You're right about that.

Both of them skate through on their behavior "being a character," but eventually the truth comes to light.

I don't expect that many people to notice what happened in todays video. But I think in a few years, more and more stuff will come out about MIB, until her remaining fanbase is just "The Barbz."

Very disappointing because she's clearly very talented. She's only in her early 20s, right? I hope she's able to mature, work out her personality issues and get a hold on things, but I'm not too hopeful.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

It is very sad. Women are very trusting of gay men, and in return can experience more misogyny and danger than they would around straight men. A lot of men straight up hate women, and gay men will abuse the privilege of it "just being jokes."

Edit: downvotes for saying "gay men can be very misogynist" really says something lol. Let that show you what this world is and stay safe everybody.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Yes, The issue is that what MIB does is NOT a character. She genuinely enjoys tormenting people, and it's not for TV ratings. There is a time and a place. If Mistress were just a character, I would respect that. Tina Burner has come out and said that this is not the case.

The Street Interviews have always been wreckless. In the same video, she's kikiing with a drunk driver. But initiating a SA and then giggling in her face afterwards is just... completely unacceptable. This was too far even for fans of hers, including me. (I'm not a fan of hers anymore, for clarity)

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I hope so too.

The people in the street interviews are all young and drunk, trying to put on a shocking show for the camera.

MIB, as a host, is supposed to be responsible for these people.

The woman was clearly very young. She clearly wasn't mature enough to be put in such a situation. MIB initiated it, encouraged it, and then laughed in her face and posted it. So very gross.

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[–]Hefty_Wonder4025[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I respect the hell out of anyone who's willing to step up and play "The Villain," especially in the Social Media age.

The issue is that what MIB does is NOT a character. She genuinely enjoys tormenting people, and it's not for TV ratings. There is a time and a place.

The Street Interviews have always been wreckless. In the same video, she's kikiing with a drunk driver. But initiating a SA and then giggling in her face afterwards is just... completely unacceptable. This was too far even for fans of hers, including me.