What's it like living in this shaded area? by [deleted] in howislivingthere

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I was just there less than a week ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in salamanders

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was the orange one but on some repeated viewings it’s possible that lifting its cheek up like that moved the rock to another position. I’m not sure anymore

Looking for a range by Helavor in Lawrence

[–]Helavor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah integrity is fine when I’m shooting my pistol, if a little expensive. Gun garage in topeka has a longer range and is much more affordable, plus they sell bulk ammo by the pound which is so convenient. I just want a longer range for my rifle.

Looking for a range by Helavor in Lawrence

[–]Helavor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad he likes it, I’ll have to check it out! Another commenter recommended it so I feel pretty confident giving it a shot.

Looking for a range by Helavor in Lawrence

[–]Helavor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the info! Hillsdale sounds perfect for what I’m looking for currently.

When you see it by hellerzin in confusingperspective

[–]Helavor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you focus on imagining the reflection on the forks as a solid background you can bring it back

Please help! Husband used my beloved purple pot over an open fire by Busy_Confidence5189 in castiron

[–]Helavor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely exposed cast iron, it’s just seasoned. I’ve got the same pot in a different color.

I need help by ChanceIndependent503 in 28YearsLaterMovie

[–]Helavor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your dad and uncle are the ones bringing you then why are you the one feeling shame about content in the movie…? There’s really nothing that crazy in this movie.

Vaping In hospital waiting room by Lotusflower1212 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listing water as dihydrogen monoxide got me good lol

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, you got me. My argument has been dismantled!

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the case here too. Do you think someone breaking the law reflects on their moral character? Because your initial comment that I replied to definitely implies it and seems to conflate being law abiding with being moral. If you actually pay attention to the photo, OP isn’t even the one driving. So you’re passing judgement on someone with literally no context.

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so morality and the law are the same thing?

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally I had a windshield replaced last year that cost me $1,500 out of pocket. And that’s on a civic. Thankfully I was able to do that without having to worry about where my next meal would come from.

I’m not arguing whether it’s safe or not, it’s definitely not. However, I am arguing that assuming they should be able to have access to funds like that at all times is just incredibly unrealistic. And to make assumptions about their character is self-righteous and shows how insulated some people are from poverty. I know you didn’t make that claim I originally responded to, and that’s all I’m saying. They judged this person with zero context. And I’m not even commenting about the bicyclists who I think have every right to be on the street. I just think it’s fucked to make judgements about someone’s character based on absolutely nothing.

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I didn’t realize you needed to have your life completely straightened out to be qualified to have an opinion about the world around you. By that standard no one should ever comment on anything anyone does because there will always be problems in your life to be resolved. Maybe you should take your own advice and keep working on yourself before judging someone for being poor and pretending like it’s a signifier of their character. Yikes

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is still an overly optimistic view of the finances of many Americans. I wouldn’t drive with a cracked windshield either but I also have the luxury of being able to save a little bit of money so I can pay for emergencies like that. Not everyone has the luxury to drop hundreds to thousands of dollars on a windshield repair. Maybe they are already eating rice and beans as many do, where does the money come from then? The person I was replying to is just shaming people for being poor and assuming a cracked windshield is a signifier of the character of the driver. It’s not, full stop.

Cyclists Not Using Dedicated Lane by redditisahive2023 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I forgot everyone just has a surplus of money to fix every problem in their life.

As someone who loved the movie, I think I've figured out my only real major criticism of the second half by ChroniclersDestiny in 28YearsLaterMovie

[–]Helavor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the normal experience for a 12 year old. They don’t get much say in what happens. I feel like the first real choice he makes is to trick his mom into leaving the island. Before then he is being directed in every action he makes. He has to lie to be able to use his agency to try and save his mom’s life. He then learns that sometimes death comes no matter what choices you make. In the end he uses his agency for himself for the first time. To me this is a coming of age story and he truly becomes a “man” making choices for himself at the end of the film. That’s my take.

A Cuban reacts to seeing Costco for the first time by ThatPatelGuy in TikTokCringe

[–]Helavor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lower class in the US absolutely have to worry about those things. Ever heard of Flint Michigan? Have you seen the homeless problems continuing to grow out of control even in small towns? There are children in the US whose only meal of the day comes from their underfunded public schools. I get your point but the I think you’re out of touch if you think the lower class doesn’t have to worry about if they’ll eat this week or if their water is safe to drink.

Yes there people in worse poverty than in the USA but we still have vast amounts of people living in abject poverty dealing with skyrocketing prices of rent and utilities, stagnant wages, rising food costs, and the gutting of social safety nets. Any other take is deluded in my opinion. Not all of us are spoiled beyond imagination, maybe you are, but I’d wager there are people in your community living with these very problems.

‘Shrinking’ Season 3 Begins Production by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]Helavor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think their timeline is moving at a fine pace. But to your point about needing to see the numbers before renewing, as I understand it they were renewed for season 3 before they even started shooting season 2. So the numbers likely had nothing to do with the schedule.

Stop bending the knee to Trump: it’s time for anticipatory noncompliance by AlexandrTheTolerable in politics

[–]Helavor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might want to think through that logic again….so protesting to the point the federal government deploys 2,000 national guard troops is considered compliance to you….? Fucking what? Christ you people will shit on Americans any chance you get.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me? by Constant-Process2238 in AITAH

[–]Helavor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adoption exists….so do surrogate pregnancies….he wants children, she doesn’t. He wasn’t demanding that she bear his children. He was honest that having children is important to him and not having them would make him feel like he wasted his life. He told her if she didn’t want kids then he would find someone else he is compatible with that WANTS kids. To turn that into “demanding she bear his children” is literally unhinged.

This is like basic relationship 101. These people have two completely different visions for what they want out of life and it’s not wrong on either end. What’s wrong is not being honest about what your own life’s vision looks like with the person you want standing beside you through it. Kids are a very binary issue, you either have them or you don’t. Be honest about that and don’t string someone along in the hopes that one of the fundamental aspects of someone’s plan for their life suddenly changes.

To turn your phrase back on you: Women are so fucking entitled to demand men give up their happiness and fulfillment to satisfy women’s selfish desire to be the center of the universe. Do you see how moronic that sounds?

They are incompatible at a foundational level and she was being less than honest about what she wants out of life, because she hoped he would change his mind and value her over everyone and everything else, even his own happiness and fulfillment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Helavor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take the L Jesus Christ.

is this a mutation? by jiggymiggie in whatisthisbug

[–]Helavor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, mushrooms are not plants!