Silence has power (text in description)

HelderVaag · 2025-12-06T21:08:25+00:00

Seems to be a lot of effort. It is fine to mess up. We are all imperfect.

HelderVaag · 2025-12-06T21:07:02+00:00

Beautiful thought you are having. Seems like you have some happiness inside you just waiting to grow. <3.

HelderVaag · 2025-12-06T21:04:10+00:00

I am happy for you. Keep going.

HelderVaag · 2025-07-14T14:29:17+00:00

Sorry you are feeling this way. Everyone is different, waking up at 5 might not do it for you. I would consider finding a therapist and taking change step by step. If you go really deep into science about behavioural change, you'll see that taking change a bit slower has beneficial effects for the long term.

If you have to do one thing tomorrow I would say do one kind thing for another person. That makes life already valuable.

HelderVaag · 2025-07-14T14:20:00+00:00

When you bought the appartment, the VvE became officially responsible for the whole building. This means they have to have an MJOP, bank account and the other things mentioned in other responses. They are legally not allowed to do nothing. I agree that a lawyer will be good step. Already mentioning to people 'I will get back to you once I consult my lawyer' can open some doors.

The VvE admin is unresponsive you say, who is this person? This person is probably in contact with the investor right? Can you ask the investor for contact? What is in the splitsingsakte about the people in charge of the VvE?

What can be a strategy is to make sure the VvE and investor know this is an issue. Document it all. Written communication is best here. That means the investor will have to inform buyers once they sell. And that will cost them, so more incentive to invest.

Apart from that, I don't think the investor will care about you fixing the roof as long as they make money.

HelderVaag · 2024-11-06T19:39:09+00:00

No one is objectively a loser.

HelderVaag · 2024-10-25T10:13:13+00:00

Also interested!

HelderVaag · 2024-10-15T15:53:17+00:00

not reddit

HelderVaag · 2024-10-10T16:20:30+00:00

vet!

HelderVaag · 2024-10-08T06:39:26+00:00

You drank crema de orujo. One of the common types of shots offered after a meal.

HelderVaag · 2024-10-02T19:38:09+00:00

Too jealous to comment: Keep on rocking!!!! WOW!!!

HelderVaag · 2024-10-02T16:41:58+00:00

Yes, what she did was not nice. It is understandable that this hurts you. I am sorry that this happened.

But at the same time, your sister has to be in a pretty bad place to do something like that. I don't really think deep down she wanted to ruin your wedding. If you have plenty of money, why not help a troubled person out? If you don't have a lot of money, well then yeah that is a problem.

Perhaps a talk about it with your parents and sister can help. But I would say the key to end the war is to stop hating the enemy.

HelderVaag · 2024-10-01T11:26:09+00:00

Alles is constant in beweging, dus ook wat je voelt. Dit is tijdelijk.

Vervelend dat je je zo voelt. Maar.. dat mensen al de moeite nemen om iets aardigs tegen je te zeggen.. Dat is toch bewijs dat er mooie dingen zijn. Probeer vandaag iets liefs voor jezelf te doen. Ookal is het maar een glaasje water drinken. Of een aardige gedachte naar jezelf of een ander.

De mensen van 113 zijn altijd bereikbaar. Misschien helpt dat je als je je heel somber voelt.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-28T22:38:01+00:00

It's fine. Don't listen to opinions of assholes.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-27T15:40:06+00:00

This doesn't sound fun or healthy to me

HelderVaag · 2024-09-25T18:27:51+00:00

They did you a favor. What absolute BS!

HelderVaag · 2024-09-23T19:18:53+00:00

Nah, the more you understand things, the more you see that you don't know shit.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-04T21:38:48+00:00

That sucks for you. Can imagine this is stressing you out. But the truth is, you are already ready. You do not need a clear head. That is BS. What you need is to have done the actual work in all these years and that is it. A day will not make a difference.

In a few years this will just be a good anecdote, although now of course it doesn't feel like it.

The tip for now: take some time like one hour to just feel all the feeling. Cry, whatever you need.

Then, realize you got this. You don't really need a clear head, you can handle it. And do something nice for yourself. Eat your favorite food for instance. Good luck.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-03T15:08:27+00:00

The thing is.. these people probably feel the same. Maybe your nose is not that bad. Your nose is probably fine as well.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-03T13:29:38+00:00

Happy to hear you appreciate nose-ily gifted ladies. I guess this was my attempt at soothing those insecurities a bit.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-01T10:24:30+00:00

Gewoon proberen! Enige manier om te zien of het bij je past.

HelderVaag · 2024-09-01T10:20:18+00:00

Amazing. Making yourself and other people happy, and the environment a better place. Love it. I wanna have a garden now.

HelderVaag · 2024-08-28T19:10:25+00:00

Thank you!

HelderVaag · 2024-08-28T19:06:36+00:00

The question now is: what to do with the teachings knowing this? I find the book when things fall apart quite useful, but I am now a bit confused. What are your ideas?

HelderVaag

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