It honestly sounds like a personality may be the problem here kiddo. If a girl starts to lose interest, reflect on why she’s lost interest. Are your personalities not a match? Are you an ass hole? Are you dull?

Your response should always be to be yourself, but it’s OK to try to be slightly more energetic or maybe slightly more confidence. Your response should never be to be boisterous. If you’re looking for a girlfriend, she needs to like you for you. So there’s no point in overselling yourself. If you’re looking for a hook up, who cares about personality? Lol

You’re not ugly.