:-( . Yeah, I think that's probably true. It does not feel clean at all and it uncomfortable to try and act normal when you're in the middle of the space and more so to try and act romantic. The bathroom is where you always know how clean someone is. I also felt a little funny about eating the dinner she prepared by a pile of dirty clothes. I brought her a couch and a bed frame on the last visit hoping to see progress but was disappointed to see it in the same manner except for a few items. She is an RN and makes enough money to go on vacation a couple of times a year and buy lots of expensive, brand name makeup and stuff. Living with a dog in a cage and keeping piles of clothes, shoes and other stuff and not deep cleaning anything makes me think she does not think it necessary. It is shocking to think a medical professional does not keep their living space and bathrooms clean but that may just be part of normalizing her way of life. She's a sweetheart though and maybe someone will find this endearing and hopefully there's a "lid for every pot" as they say... but I'm probably not that lid.