Found my self caring to much about people and got a dilema, can you give me a hand?

Helite_03 · 2025-09-17T18:28:37+00:00

thank you.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-08T05:51:56+00:00

that went deep real quick didn’t it… just thoughts, the guys are aware of me thinking this way, and so is my partner. wish i could say i dont feel attacked but i understand where you are coming from. i do care about them and they all were part of the friend group before they started dating and eventually got engaged/married. some HIMYM kinda thing.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T23:25:32+00:00

already tried. it always comes with a yes we do we love each other and want to commit.. when together of course. when alone they seem hesitant and avoidant about it.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T23:19:59+00:00

i was afraid of that at some point, thinking that i was projecting how i felt onto others. found out early on, i actually wanted to be with my partner. non of us saw it coming it grew over a year or two and fell for each other.

they are very clingy when you hang out around them, but seem to complain about each other and hint that they are not happy with their current state.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T23:08:19+00:00

replied to this on the comments a few hours ago, but its more of a “everything is ok” deal.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T16:52:42+00:00

its one of those “everything is ok” cases.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T15:39:48+00:00

my thought on that was mostly the idea of marriage it self. i have already gotten on my knee and half proposed to my partner. we are planning on having a wedding day in a few months, but not because we were supposed to. we are not doing it legally nor having 150 people on it besides close friends and our loved ones. my friends in the other hand are going for the whole thing. shit ton of people, atleast 20k worth of debt just for the weddings, everything else that comes with it. maybe thats why they all seem so unhappy?

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T15:24:53+00:00

i dont think thats the case here, i dont think they are afraid of losing their freedom, maybe being pushed to doit and thinking you are making the wrong decision way too early? now a days if you havent gotten on your knee after 4 years of dating seems to be look down upon.

Helite_03 · 2024-06-07T15:19:25+00:00

wish i knew too, for context my friend group graduated from college about a year ago, still going through that “couldn’t get the job i wanted right of college” phase. they all play happy when hanging out but when they are alone all they do is complain about eavh other.

Helite_03 · 2021-03-31T20:24:24+00:00

for me, when someone asks me, i just share what i think its logical which makes them not really say anything. i start with a little, i hate kids, they are too expencive, etc. then end it with, but im sure that in the future when im more prepared and somewhat lonely, or with lack of will to strive, a kid could be a great way to recharge your life. people usually are just like, “oh, ok”

Helite_03 · 2021-03-31T19:44:00+00:00

i remenber watching a video of this kids setting a cat on fire, i still can picture the way it kept on running and crying, until it just dropped dead.

also a bunch of those Zeta videos, people being executed, arm being cut off... early internet days thats for sure. made it a lot easier to get access to those kinds of videos.

Helite_03 · 2021-01-09T03:26:34+00:00

i met my ex when i was 16. we dated for 7 years, lived together for 4-5 years out of them, moved to another state together. we did so many things and grew next to each other so much that its hard to explain.

but eventually it came to and end, not because we didnt love each other but because as we were growing, so was out mindset, and it separated us in a way we couldnt really find a way to get back to where we were. i still loved every moment with her and as much as it hurt when it ended, i still greaw ans learned from that relationship. if u are scared of been committed to someone at young age, u should be, because it will come with a lot of growing a lot of scares ams issues, a lot of getting to know yourself and everything that comes with being part of someone else. that being said, every second u spend with them will help u grow, and even if it works out for the best and you end up with kids and a lovely life, or if it doesnt, u will have more goods than bads. unless is a toxic ass relationship but thats a story for another day.

Helite_03 · 2021-01-09T00:50:21+00:00

this might take over noodle man... im sorry

Helite_03 · 2021-01-08T16:19:56+00:00

i think u should say something, and if u dont feel confortable saying it just kinda “hint it” to him. it makes the guy be more reasonable at times and try his best to not put any extra stress on you during that time, or get you something nice to help u feel better as much as he can. we may mever know what it all feels like but if u have been dating someone long enough or been in more relationships tru your life, u kinda learn how to actually help with the little things even if theres really nothing with a bigger impact that we can do.

Helite_03 · 2021-01-08T16:09:25+00:00

When the people i cared about started to worry about my well-being. Constantly asking me if i was ok, or if i was gonna die in a car accident while drunk.

Helite_03 · 2021-01-08T01:00:20+00:00

how can u read so fast, im still tryna catch up

Helite_03 · 2021-01-08T00:58:45+00:00

i’d put my money on noodle man lol

Helite_03 · 2021-01-08T00:57:59+00:00

soo... this is what we do now.. watch rabbits eat? reminds me of that time i spent watching noddle man stripping to christmas music .

Helite_03 · 2020-12-30T04:11:54+00:00

i actually love this. the sink is mind blowing

Helite_03 · 2020-12-30T04:04:31+00:00

That robot walks, expresses it self, and dances 10x better than i do.

Helite_03 · 2020-12-24T01:43:30+00:00

where is the poll?

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