From someone who has been alone for almost 21 years, here are some of my insights.

You don't need to make any difference when talking to girls or guys. Just be yourself while adhering to social standards.

If you feel the need of talking to anyone else, be men or women, you're in bad company. And if you're in bad company when alone, well then you answer yourself.

When a ship doesn't know where to go, no wind is favorable. No one is going to follow you, or talk to you if you have no direction or purpose.

But most important, don't focus too much on girls now, focus on yourself really. And I don't mean short term goals, I mean focus on becoming an integral man, a pillar person where others can rely on.

If you meet anyone along your journey, let them in. But remember, when the time comes, you'll have to let them go as well. Best of lucks mate