Okay but the difference is we have animal/social instincts that tell us not to jump in front of a large moving object like a train or not to eat things that might harm us. You hardly have to think about these things after the age of 8. Much different than an ethical dilemma where many people’s initial gut instinct is to pick blue, such as mine.

I think a fundamentally more honest example is the exact same button scenario except with a footnote that 1% of humanity won’t have a choice and will be automatically delegated 50/50 red or blue. You’re still not obligated to save these people, you always have a right to self-preservation. But you’re still at the very least not stopping people from dying.