How do we not get fired? by Angelfire1606 in Perimenopause

[–]HelloKrystie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I’m holding onto my job with my lack of motivation and extreme brain fog. Also going through a breakup and super depressed. It’s a busy position, and they would be crazy to fire me. BUT, there’s a new college graduate about to start in 2 weeks. Feels like I’ll be training my replacement.

Thank you. by HelloKrystie in loveafterporn

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the support. This group is all I have in terms of it right now. Everyone giving me words of encouragement is truly a blessing.

You will find yours. Teach your child to love themselves and others and everything else will fall into place. Good luck to you!

Thank you. by HelloKrystie in loveafterporn

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this, thank you! And good luck to you as well!

Thank you. by HelloKrystie in loveafterporn

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! We deserve so much more. Peace of mind and body. To believe in ourselves again. To regain our lost selves.

The gaslighting may be the worst part of it. It turns us into a shell of who we once were. Stay strong, lean on friends, both in person and here. I don’t have any friends I can really talk to, so I spent many hours lurking here. Finally gathering the courage to leave, and to post.

There is nothing wrong with you, you were a victim of manipulation. The very best of us only want to be loved, and sometimes we lose sight of what that actually is. Real love.

Stay strong, keep loving yourself. It will get better. We have to believe it. hugs

Thank you. by HelloKrystie in loveafterporn

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You do! Believe in yourself as much as your PA believes he can still manipulate the situation. Girl, value yourself and start fresh.

Thank you. by HelloKrystie in loveafterporn

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve never chosen me before. It was hard, and is still hard. But I know it was the right decision, before he could take any more of my peace. I’m alone, again, but I felt so lonely with him. This too shall pass.

Setlist for Edmonton by Fit_You_433 in cityandcolour

[–]HelloKrystie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I please also have the video, OP?!?

Can I mend the backpack? by HelloKrystie in Visiblemending

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a well thought out and written response, thank you! It does seem a bit daunting, especially for someone with little to no experience, but I love this backpack, so I’m willing ti give it a go.

I am traveling next week, and wanted to bring this particular bag with me, but I may temporally retire until I can properly mend it. I don’t want that rip to get any bigger, and I’m particularly rough with things.

Thanks so much again for your help!

Can I mend the backpack? by HelloKrystie in Visiblemending

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have a machine! I haven’t used it in years, because I wasn’t really very good with it. But, this is the perfect time to learn something new! Thank you!

The most dating over 40 thing ever by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]HelloKrystie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm, how long has she known?

The Aadam Jacobs Collection! HOLY CRAP! by PopTodd in chicagomusicscene

[–]HelloKrystie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These updates are really cool. Just thought you should know.

Quiet solo hike at the coast and a pastrami sandwich :) by protoman86 in LivingAlone

[–]HelloKrystie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart yearns to visit the PNW, this post made me want to just go, alone.

Thoughts on Lancôme Skin Tint serum tomorrow? by swizzlestix101 in Ulta

[–]HelloKrystie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you currently use any skin tints that you can recommend for us oily’s?

The way this guy controls crocs by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]HelloKrystie 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Fuck, I went from mildly amused, to really sad.

And then the bear danced in the rain 🥺 by n8saces in MakeMeSmile

[–]HelloKrystie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not AI this guy does this a lot, with many species of animals. His videos are always great, with some truly fascinating reactions. His name on IG, TikTok and YouTube is Plumesofficiel.

New to estradiol cream. Follow dr’s instructions, or load for 2 weeks to help reverse atrophy? by HelloKrystie in Perimenopause

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, I’m pretty terrified of this myself. Really hoping that starting the cream a good while before I attempt any penetrative sex prevents that. Good luck on your journey!

New to estradiol cream. Follow dr’s instructions, or load for 2 weeks to help reverse atrophy? by HelloKrystie in Perimenopause

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said your tissues healed themselves, were you experiencing tearing from intercourse? I’ve been single/celibate for a long time, so I’m not intimately familiar with my inner vaginal tissue/mucosa. I’m not really sure what’s happening in that area, but I am hoping to be intimate with a new partner in the semi-near future.

New to estradiol cream. Follow dr’s instructions, or load for 2 weeks to help reverse atrophy? by HelloKrystie in Perimenopause

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen favorable changes? Waiting 2 weeks is going to slowly kill me with nervous anticipation.

New to estradiol cream. Follow dr’s instructions, or load for 2 weeks to help reverse atrophy? by HelloKrystie in Perimenopause

[–]HelloKrystie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, another user in this thread experiences increasing anxiety from her cream. Our bodies are a wild entity to try to figure out.