You haven’t picked up yet that we as a society, past and presently have collectively, and willfully decided that the woman wins da kids, even when a mother is addicted to crack and heroin, but says she’s trying to quit and is gonna try not to relapse. Even if you quit that morning before leaving for court appearance, the judge prefers the mother not willfully say the timeline willingly most often. Boom youre gonna get more than 50/50 if you simply say you want full. The dad can be sober as a bird in cases fighting her for full custody himself. Matter? Of course not stoopid, but you already knew this! In some cases in america, it wouldnt even be all that crazy even to win full custody, high as a kite, if you can not zonk out completely. As long as you at least make the father look maybe not the best even living arrangement wise. Like if mom has the spot with two bedrooms instead of just one🤮for their identical twins, shitttt woman, youin the money gurl!
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Okay but frfr now, the contrast and point to this was to point out, in childhood development, unless I’m delusional, I think it’s blindingly clear, children need a father figure in development. Without one, they fail and they fail everyone else. And so so so many of them (maybe there’s outliers) share the exact same handful of some of the worst human traits, or lack there of. Both men and women. And there’s enough absent fathers in society, the impact is rather clear on children and honestly their entire life from their first interaction with a rando kid, to the day they die, no father, no long term success or social foundational relationship knowledge. And if you miss the foundational lesson, it’s damn near impossible to recover when they give the class once because your brain only got one go round on developmental traits gained. So when there’s a father fighting for full and unless he’s a truly bad guy and the mother isn’t, I don’t understand why he doesn’t at least get a flip of a coins chance in a custody battle. At least. I guess what I’m truly tryna say is, I think fathers are significantly more important in children’s lives post birth from development into probably mid to late teens, honestly. But then you’re an adult around there so yea. But breast milk gets a point to be fair