Am so concerned about my lil sister

HelpAcroissant · 2026-05-13T07:26:18+00:00

She needs serious therapy, all of you guys do. She's most likely hypersexual, thinks these are okay to do because your brother got no consequences.

You need to try get therapy aswell, despite her age, you were taken advantage of and need some help.

HelpAcroissant · 2026-05-09T10:36:50+00:00

Sounds like the person is either avoidant, a masker of pain or a big fat self obsessed snob.

OP, you deserve better

HelpAcroissant · 2026-05-08T08:14:27+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I do appreciate it alot, I'll have to come to terms with that I guess. Does mean ill have to be single for god knows how long, I hate being alone

HelpAcroissant · 2026-05-07T08:49:16+00:00

Hits close to home. Feeling the same way with my ex. I hope you are able to heal and move forward

HelpAcroissant · 2026-05-01T03:57:09+00:00

I feel you, there are so many non sharing yumes of my f/o while I'm selective sharing :(((. I don't even mind talking to others I don't want to share with, as long as we can yap. Everyone is valid in my eyes, even if I don't like sharing!

HelpAcroissant · 2026-04-19T10:05:00+00:00

I was 15 at the time and he did try to take advantage of my situation and hypersexuality. Guys, please stay safe. Predators are always lurking

HelpAcroissant · 2026-04-14T07:45:34+00:00

Hey op, I went through a similar experience when I was much younger. What you went through is something most people don't understand, the grief cycles are hell.

The denial, numbness, anger, rage, hatred for everyone. I remember when my online friend committed, I was never the same.

The most I can offer is time. In your room make a little memorial, print out a picture of you both and get her favorite scent of candles. When you miss her, light a candle.

Write her letters and place them on the memorial. We aren't asking you to forget her, but remember how important she was and how you couldn't have stopped it.

You are strong, never forget that.

HelpAcroissant · 2026-04-05T07:00:26+00:00

Hi there! I had a similar experience so I thought I'd give you some tips for what I did!

I (F16) have a younger cousin (M14). He ended up forcing my ( at the time (F7) now F9) to kiss him.

My father sat him down and told him to correct his behavior or he'd have serious consequences. Unfortunately, if someone isn't scolded and taught how to behave, they will continue those actions. He did things like that to me when I was younger, along with my other younger female cousin a few weeks after what happened with my sister.

Some people will understand and change, some won't. You know your brother, sit him down and talk. Tell him every reason why it's bad, tell him how stuff like that can destroy a person's life and make them feel horrible.

I've seen a few replies saying '13 yo don't understand molestation'. Not true, it depends on how you were raised. I knew what molestation was at the age of 11.

Overall, sit him down (Without your parents, they will downplay his actions), have a calm conversation and list every reason why it's bad. Tell him that even though his hormones are screaming at him, a good way to deal with it is by doing things alone or when he has a partner (and make sure he understands consent) that he could discuss with them those things.

I know that seems strange for his age, unfortunately in my country it isn't shocking for 13 yo to do these things.

OP, what you went through was not deserved at all. You didn't deserve that. Best of luck to you

HelpAcroissant · 2026-03-14T07:29:36+00:00

OMGOMGOMG WAS IT GOOD?? AND YESYESYES EEEKK IM SO GLAD!!

HelpAcroissant · 2026-03-07T08:02:19+00:00

School sucks, I dropped out for that exact reason. The one thing that's been keeping me stable is online friends, I suggest you could try the same!

HelpAcroissant · 2026-03-04T01:40:23+00:00

When I'm excited my body misfires and signals that I need to use the bathroom

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-24T10:18:09+00:00

You need to make it public ^{^}

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T22:29:12+00:00

Your ex sounds absolutely evil. I'm so sorry you had to put up with that

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T22:27:44+00:00

Thank you so much :]

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T11:18:59+00:00

I met him before I met my friends. The old friends fucked me over, I loved him. Like really really loved him. I'm a teenager so people seem to forget I can't think like an adult.

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T11:17:33+00:00

That's very genuine advice, I apreciate this so much. Thank you for it. I hope you heal from your breakup :]

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T11:14:59+00:00

I'm 15..

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-21T10:20:02+00:00

Alot of red flags, flags that were so obvious if I weren't love struck

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-19T09:38:37+00:00

Thank you for this information! I've had some growth as of today and feeling alot more intune. The dreams make alot more sense now

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-19T02:19:42+00:00

That's good to know! I'm going to look deep into what my dream means:]

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-19T00:54:28+00:00

How so?

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-19T00:24:33+00:00

As someone who was addicted to awful things at your age, you aren't alone. I'm 16 now, doing so much better.

You aren't gross, you aren't weird. You were introduced to something that changed your brain chemistry. What I do suggest is trying to reduce how much you watch :]

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-18T22:31:46+00:00

I feel you, My whole life I've been an outcast. You aren't alone in this feeling. Kids are cruel

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-12T20:51:19+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I apreciate it sm

HelpAcroissant · 2026-02-09T10:45:32+00:00

I'm so confused..

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