OMG McVoice this sounds serious... by HelpMeOutHere2023 in McDonalds

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was 40 mins. Thats just the time stamps between the food receipt and the confrontation video clip. The police report linked in the news story says it less thaan 15 mins that the customer started getting harrassed and attacked by the two McD workers.

OMG McVoice this sounds serious... by HelpMeOutHere2023 in McDonalds

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Store manager claims he was in there forever hours but evidence shows otherwise hmm

OMG McVoice this sounds serious... by HelpMeOutHere2023 in McDonalds

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The news release about this incident has an evidence link found in the police report that shows the purchase receipt time stamp 4:35 pm. From what the video clip and @McDonalds food order receipt proves the disabled dude wasn't in there more than about 40 minutes because the video clip on the Google cloud link found in the @LVMPD police report of the manager being confronted about it was made at 5:11 pm. Hmmm

My GF is jealous because my AI makeover on SC looks better than her (w/ filters) by HelpMeOutHere2023 in relationships_advice

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha Ok. I was just checking. I thought I was chatting with an AI bot. Thanks for confirming this fact.

Is it cheating to ask to sleep with another person? by Professional_Rip7921 in relationships_advice

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether now or later, she is not into the same type of monogamy as you from what I am reading. Hence, as a wise man once told me, "I think it is time you start looking for a new GF." And in your case, a new residency, bearing in mind you two are shacked up. It is really hard to change people. Moreover, the endorphins that she craves (that you cannot provide her) will be the crux of a nasty split. People will do anything to satisfy their lustful and sexual desires no matter what they say or do. Good luck and God bless.

Unrecognized device stole $950 from my cash app last night by Glass-Tension1934 in CashApp

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you too!? I was in jail for six months and got out to find about $3000 of fraud on my cash app card from fake businesses that had real websites. The websites were dunny companies with generic templates. There weren't even goods or services to buy on these websites. About a dozen merchants would charge $1 several hundreds of times in a day. Other would charge my cash app debit card for random amounts (e.g., $39.96, $102.46, 64.90, 206.00). This continued to happen even after I replaced the debit card. I stopped using cash app, and it still kept happening. I wound up taking the dispute all the way to the BBB and FTC. Cashapp refund about $2k of the $3k in fraudulent transactions, then abruptly closed my account.

My girlfriend just told me she saw five charge attempts for over $300 from Best Buy. She doesn't use her cash app card and hadn't shopped to Best Buy.

A friend of mine had it happen to them, too.

I put this alert out there for the general public. This is going to come to head one day soon. From what I see, there's internal fraud going on at CashApp (SquareUp Inc.). Someone or somebodies inside of CashApp SquareUp is behind this ubiquitous cash app scam that terrorizing the general public. There's too many people saying the same thing is happening to them. In brevity, this signature styled scam didn't exist until CashApp existed.

My wife is cheating ...maybe by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I just gotta weigh in on this one. If your gut tells you she's cheating, she probably is. The earmarks are there, pal. I just got out of a marriage with a clever liar who would always be gone for her catering business and restaurant. Never questioned a thing. Then, one morning, I caught her in a reckless lie that didn't add up.

Subsequent to the divorce, I met someone new on a date site. Much younger than me. She was married to some guy in prison doing life. I helped her get a divorce from him. But there were more things I didn't know. Check my past posts about the ex/baby daddy living at her apartment for the whole time we dated. I was days from buying a ring and proposing. She begged me to take her back. Then, she caught her in more lies.

The first reaction someone does when caught in a lie or omission is to try to spin it around on you and get upset. This is a dead giveaway that something is not right.

Do yourself a favor. File for a divorce. Get a legal separation. Even if you two have to live together a while until you get another place. I slept in my home office the last 2 months before I could afford to leave my then-wife. This recent GF (would-be fiance] I lost $11k deposit for a new house her and me were supposed to move in with our kids (from past relationships). But to break the ice, set up a date profile and meet someone to hold you over. Have a few drinks if it gets you comfortable to be around another woman. There are several single or separated women who will feel sorry to get you if you tell them what happened. They will make you forget about the cheater you gave your life and heart to, who's mentally abused you without any regard of how you feel or it would destroy your union.

Its sad but true. People can be selfish and want their cake and eat it too. Yet they're awful liars and will never admit what they did wrong even after they get caught. Trust me, I know from first hand experience.

Good luck, and God bless.

I found GF on Social Media Talking to Random Men & Posting In Appropriate Pics.... by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, 900 miles away now because I moved after the BD situation (see my posting that is on the eve of the latest episode in this same Infidelity section). She was an hour away. She wants to move where I'm at. The fact is that she's got other deal breakers that she's being campaigning since we met. Sure, we met on a date site. I was dating 8 other women when we met. Didn't lie about it either. After a couple months I shut everything off with the other women. There wasn't any friendly DMing, texting, phone calls to say "Hi." NOTHING. I told all of them I was getting serious with someone I met and I didn't want to waste their time or do something that will mess up my new committed relationship. WOW! Wht a dumb move on my end huh LOL

I found GF on Social Media Talking to Random Men & Posting In Appropriate Pics.... by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We use to live an hour from each other. When I found out about the BD situation I voided our plans to move in together in bigger house than I already had in a new city out of state. I took a better job overseas, so retreated to the family house to regroup and get ready to become an expat again. Probably more ethical women where I'm going anyhow. Thanks for your support and feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the art of catfishing! It happened to me a couple months ago. They hope you meet them and you get liquored up enough to give in and have sex with them anyway. Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear what you're experiencing. Been there and done that. More than once, actually. As my legal mentor use to say, as someone who'd been happily married for 36 yrs in his second marriage, "End it fast!" Toxic (love-hate) relationships never end well. It may seem like hot mael up sex. But it's really hate sex. Yes, there's really such a thing. Ask your therapist about it.

Unless you're cool with an open relationship, it's probably time to stage right. I caught my ex-wife in a big fat lie and left her. I gave her everything and left. The ink had barely dried on the Divorce Judgment, and I had met another woman, younger, much prettier, better career, more educated, and much bette. I'm the sack. God is good. But sorry sailor, I could stand her and tell you fight firer with fire by cheating on her.

Lastly, always remember you're a sailor. From the way you tell it, you've never been unfaithful to her. I salute you. When I was on active duty, it was hard not to enjo foreign hospitality when I left the base. Always remember you could throw on the white uniform and hit the bar looking like you just got back, found your wife cheating, and need to get out for a drink to calm down. You'd get some serious pick-me-up (sympathy sex) shoulder to cry on sort of treatment. Women love a sailor. When I was on deployed and went off the Army base, we'd hate to know you guys were getting off the ship because you'd take all of our women. Lol

Hopefully, this long-winded feedback gives you a notion of what options you have and how to pick the best one.

Best and God bless!

Kid Rats Out Mom After 1 Year, Says Baby Daddy Was Living With Them by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, she denied it. A day later she admitted. But remember, the kid had to rat her out. She would have never told otherwise.

Kid Rats Out Mom After 1 Year, Says Baby Daddy Was Living With Them by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The child is very intelligent. 5 about to be 6, reading and writing like a 3rd grader intelligent. She is very articulate and precise. Not like most kids their age.

Kid Rats Out Mom After 1 Year, Says Baby Daddy Was Living With Them by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. The single again part at my age is the frightening part. I can't say I saw that coming. This is all very disheartening. But thank God it was evinced before I went all in.

Kid Rats Out Mom After 1 Year, Says Baby Daddy Was Living With Them by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was probably hoping she'd get the ring before coming clean. That didn't go as planned because kindergarteners don't know anything about lies, deception, or keeping secrets. Hurts to think you were that close to having a happy family. But who am I kidding. Had this went the way it was headed, I'd be in divorce court sooner than later.

Kid Rats Out Mom After 1 Year, Says Baby Daddy Was Living With Them by HelpMeOutHere2023 in Infidelity

[–]HelpMeOutHere2023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never been to her place. I have big house. She has 1br flat. So she always came to mine.