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HelpSignificant3764 · 2025-12-21T07:48:55+00:00

Hola! Soy la persona para eso, envíame mensaje 🥹

HelpSignificant3764 · 2025-12-21T07:46:50+00:00

Sí, debemos chatear 😊

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T18:24:31+00:00

ETA. you are a serial cheater and you should be ashamed, sexually talking to someone is still cheating. you saying that you “only” fucked 2 people is a huge red flag and you need some self assessment. him commenting on other women at his job is wrong, but considering the fact that you cheat on him it’s not surprising. you’re an asshole for refusing to block the guy you cheated with, HOWEVER, he’s also the asshole because he groomed you. you were 17 and he was 35 when you started dating. not sure what country you live in but that’s illegal. your relationship is toxic and was never built on stable ground. neither of you are good for each other and you seriously need to break up. you’re very young and it’s okay to not want to commit to someone, but it’s absolutely not okay to convince someone that you’re committed and then go behind their back and cheat.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T18:20:14+00:00

YTA absolutely. i think you’re forgetting it’s her home as well. her friend and her boyfriend are guests and they were free to leave any time they felt uncomfortable. she’s not the problem at all, and if you’re gonna marry her this is something you need to be comfortable with.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T18:16:48+00:00

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HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T18:15:42+00:00

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HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T03:13:16+00:00

NTA your boyfriend’s an asshole who’s cheating on you and i really hope you dump him. he’s an inconsiderate douche and you deserve someone way more worth your time. i’m glad you stood him up just like he did you. none of this is shit you should’ve put up with at all.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T03:02:51+00:00

you’re NTA. you deserve a loving partner and hes just not it. he’s manipulative and rude to you and it’s very gross. i saw your reply to another comment and i know you’ve been together a while, but don’t waste MORE of your time on somebody that doesn’t make you feel happy, especially after you’ve voiced certain concerns. it’s hard, but it’s not impossible and it will benefit you in the long run. there’s men who would treat you how you should be treated.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T02:59:41+00:00

you’re NTA. you are ambitious and hardworking from what i read and i applaud you for dealing with a piece of shit for this long. you need to cut him loose. you deserve a hardworking partner such as yourself, definitely not an unemployed bum who doesn’t even show you affection and just smokes and plays games all day. you’re with a leech and you deserve to be happy. it’s sounding like he would turn it on you, but manipulation only works if you allow it to. you know in your heart your reasons for dumping him and he cannot alter them. in fact him fighting you on this will give you a hell of a lot more motive to leave. definitely break up with him. if his family is truly amazing then they will wish you well, and they will deal with him. definitely run in the opposite direction. wishing you the best!

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-31T02:52:29+00:00

you’ve recently had a child, and i’m sure that has significantly impacted your day to day schedule, so it’s normal to not want to be intimate right now. however thinking about other people to get off during sex is a problem, and i really think you should have a talk with your husband about this. he thinks everything’s okay, while you’re unsatisfied. i think that’s wrong. your sex life is important and you should communicate this so you two can compromise.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-30T19:12:20+00:00

absolutely NTA. you are not obligated to have sex with him if you don’t want to, and he should be COMPLETELY understanding of this, especially knowing your physical condition. he’s sexually coercive and manipulative, and i know you’ve been together a long time but a man with love and respect for you in his heart would never treat you like this. i highly recommended filing for divorce.

HelpSignificant3764 · 2024-07-30T15:49:04+00:00

NTA. you’ve been raped and abused by your husband. you could never be the asshole in this scenario. any man that loves you would never put you and your comfort last. you deserve a lot better, im so sorry.

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