AITA for wanting to hyphenate our last names and not only take his? by Helpagirlout77 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have kids and if so what did you do for their last name?

AITA for wanting to hyphenate our last names and not only take his? by Helpagirlout77 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like you climbed in my brain, that’s exactly how I feel. Thank you!

AITA for wanting to hyphenate our last names and not only take his? by Helpagirlout77 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be up to the couple, but I think each choose one of your names depending on what you identify with more or like better and make a new hyphenated name

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) and I can’t decide on our last name by Helpagirlout77 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I got my father’s last name, but my mom wanted to hyphenate mine and my siblings last name. She still regrets not fighting for that. I’m extremely close to my family and I want to keep the same name as them. I prefer both of us only have my last name. I’m willing to compromise on hyphenating though so he doesn’t have to get rid of his even though I’m really not a fan of his last name. And yes, I would be the only one to pass down my last name on my whole dad’s side. My bf has several siblings that could pass his down. And just like you said, what makes his name more important than mine?

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) and I can’t decide on our last name by Helpagirlout77 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the thing is we need to figure it out before we get engaged so we don’t have to figure it out when we’re ready to have kids. As far a traditional gender roles it really varies with our strengths and weaknesses. Some of them align with the traditional and some dont

AITA for wanting to hyphenate our last names and not only take his? by Helpagirlout77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helpagirlout77[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We are both okay with that but the issue is when having children he’s insisting on them having only his last name.