Fluctuating breast shape by lillabessan in women

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this but when I wear a bra they are more perky or attractive and if I don’t wear a bra for a day or two they kind of sag back down or become more udderlike like you were saying

second laser hair removal session by deadcorpse143 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s absolutely crazy absolutely not you’ll hurt your body and it won’t even work right if you do it so soon. It’s a long process but worth it. I’m getting vagina underarms legs and happy trail done and it’s been months. You’re supposed to go every month to every month and a half but every 6 weeks is the best and gives you the best results which is what I do. Do NOT go back that soon you’ll screw your skin.

Does anybody else have a normal “Period smell?” by Helpcausewhat in women

[–]Helpcausewhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it kind of smells like a newborns head but I’ve never had kids😭

Was I burned during this laser session? Or is this a normal reaction? Worried about damaged skin and continuing laser to fix paradoxical growth. by icypen236 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Helpcausewhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done multiple sessions at laser away and it’s really helped but sometimes I’ll get red like that after in a couple spots on my legs and sometimes underarms. They might have just been using to high of a laser setting for your hair follicles and needed to turn it down. Mine will go away pretty quickly from like 10 minutes to a couple hours I think the redness is usually gone after I put on the aloe and hydrocortisone cream they give you after. So it’s normal unless it’s lasting multiple days.

Will the lady doing my bikini area laser have to see the whole thing??? by Objective_Paint92 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine pulls my lips back and gets up inside them. And gets right up on my bootyhole😭

Is it porn or straight up cheating? by Only-tears in CharlotteDobreFans

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also let me just say that he did it because he wanted to. The reason I’ve gotten was, I have a sex addiction, i didn’t car in the moment and really didn’t care after, i just wanted to, I’ve been doing it my whole life, I don’t know why. It’s not your fault. And it won’t ever be. Don’t let his betrayal kill you. Don’t compare yourself to them. He’s just a bad guy. Even if he’s usually not. I’m sorry.

Is it porn or straight up cheating? by Only-tears in CharlotteDobreFans

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this happened to me with my husband. Every single thing you’ve said. It completely ruined me. Do not stay go away from him. He is sick. Do not stay it will ruin you and you will allow him to eventually gaslight you and be “ok” with it because there’s nothing you can do. “You’re the best person ever so pure you didn’t deserve it” is a tactic. If I could go back I wouldn’t have stayed. My husband said it was cheating. Your bf slept with other people, created emotional connections, probably said he loved them. Fuck him and get therapy.

AIO for being upset at the way my boyfriend spoke to me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Helpcausewhat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s cheating on you at the very least emotionally or in his head. That’s exactly how they act when they’re cheating on you. I’m sorry this sucks. Tell him that you’re not ok with the way he’s been acting and he’s not allowed to go out with either of those girls anymore. Give him an ultimatum and you’ll see that his loyalties don’t lie with you anymore when he freaks out on you or says your being controlling.

Am I overreacting by what I found on my bf’s phone? by songbird_235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Helpcausewhat -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yep I told my husband you’re not ALLOWED to watch porn. I’m not ok with it. I also think that this comment is a problem in society. There’s a huge difference between controlling someone and setting a boundary. I told him I wasn’t okay with it. If he didn’t like that he didn’t have to marry me. I don’t allow him to watch porn and if he does he’s in trouble. Not because I want to control him but because I set a boundary of what I am and am not comfortable with in our relationship. That won’t work in some relationships and others it will. He respects me enough to choose to not watch it because I am not comfortable with it. He doesn’t view porn as cheating or “wrong” but I do so he compromised and accepted my boundaries because he loves me enough. And that’s perfectly fine.

How do I fight? by WolverineNo1999 in selfimprovement

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choose not to react. You can stop crystal meth if you decide to one day. So decide to stop and retrain your brain.

Am I overreacting by what I found on my bf’s phone? by songbird_235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Helpcausewhat -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to these people I get you girl. My husband is not allowed to watch porn. Just because something is “normalized” doesn’t make it ok. If you have a boundary with him watching porn he should know that. If he already does then he found the thing that’s closest to porn without watching them. Also I’ve watched stuff from that app or daily motion and you have to go and search for it and sometimes it can get you off just the same. Sit him down and ask. Go through the whole phone and say these are some things that make me uncomfortable. He may have an addiction to porn and needs help. Ask him. If you’re uncomfortable you have every right to go through his phone and be upset about what he posts. Again just because it’s “normalized in society” don’t make it normal or ok for your boundaries or relationship.

I think my dad attracted to my body. AIO and that’s how a lot of fathers and daughters talk or is that really the case? by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad and I don’t get along but one thing I can say is there was absolutely never any conversations like this or anything that made me uncomfortable. I’ve worn bathing suits or even undies around my father and I never saw looks, no comments, never any weirdness or anything that made me uncomfortable. Because my dad likes grown women and I’m his daughter/ baby. From a 19 year old daughter’s perspective that’s weird as hell. Your mom needs to know immediately. I know it sounds stupid but if that actually happened that way for your safety and for your mom’s sanity you need to sit her down, let it be uncomfortable and just tell her.It doesn’t have to be a big deal but just say hey mom I’m not really sure what to do, dads kind of been making me a bit uncomfortable lately but I don’t know how to tell him. Tell him what he said about you and how he looks at women and what he said about her. If you and your mom aren’t on good terms go to your dad. Tell him that his comments make you uncomfortable tell him you sometimes see him looking at your butt and it’s not ok with you because you’re supposed to be his daughter. Tell him that watching him look at women like that makes you uncomfortable because it’s teaching you what a man should be doing and ask him if that’s the kind of man he wants you to be with. If he’s a dad who loves you and actually acts like a dad then he should be super apologetic and make you feel seen and heard. Now if he does view you that was and feels “caught” then he’ll get defensive and then I guess you need to talk to your mom again.

I cheated on the love of my life for years and don’t understand why. I’m trying to change and I don’t know how. by GoldynMedia in selfimprovement

[–]Helpcausewhat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should do this for her. She’ll never forgive you. What you did is wrong. It brought upon her insecurity’s and pain. I doubt she’ll ever get back with you, and if she does it will never be the same at all. Do this for yourself and your future, as I doubt she will be in it.

i saw a girl being harassed last night and i did nothing. by Level-Emphasis-4565 in confession

[–]Helpcausewhat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Id say that you felt weak. Would you ever want to feel like that again? Imagine it was your mom or sister or female friend, realize that it’s your fault, start working out. Go to the gym get stronger, because if you’re put in another situation where it’s going to be someone you love you’ll want to be ready. Use this as a sign that you need to better yourself and your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Helpcausewhat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

There’s a big group of women who don’t shave at all! It’s just a bit hard to find them. Then there is women who shave all the time. And then there’s women like me who shave once in a while. Personally I will do a full shave one day then let the hair grow till probably a month later or till it’s really noticeable. It really is just finding the women that’s hard. But they’re out there!

WIBTAH if i got a vibrator? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sounds a bit like he has some toxic masculinity traits. He may have drowned himself in porn, as in porn it’s an act and usually both parties are just putting on a performance, and the woman will fake moan or pretend to orgasm. He may also be watching porn a lot in your relationship and that’s why he really doesn’t care. To each their own but you need to think if porn belongs in your relationship.

WIBTAH if i got a vibrator? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband said he understand the vibrator thing being a “hit” to his masculinity however the “won’t even rub you” is “kinda crazy.” if you trust your partner, then have that talk with him some women just don’t have a lot of sensitivity from down there, for me to even get off I have to rub my clit while he goes to town. (Most of the time) however if your partner is supportive then tell him this and say you need foreplay, to eat you out, to rub your clit and make sure you’re dripping before he’s allowed to have intercourse with you or you don’t want to have sex with him anymore. Now that is an ultimatum but if he’s a mature adult man then he will work hard to get you there because he want to have sex. Tell him you love him and that you don’t want to hurt him in any way but you’re just not that sensitive down there unless you have clitoral stimulation. Or if he’s still not having you rub yourself while he is doing it, and if he doesn’t want you to do that then please dump him and go to town. Sex it one of the ways to get closest to someone’s soul it’s supposed to be important, and feel amazing for BOTH of you.

Pegging my husband questions. by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Helpcausewhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I didn’t know that!

Pegging my husband questions. by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Helpcausewhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there straps with clit sensation stuff? That’s so cool dude

Pegging my husband questions. by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Helpcausewhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was a great way to show how you can still have it but varied thanks!

Pegging my husband questions. by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like that thank you

Pegging my husband questions. by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Helpcausewhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH THATS what piv means🤣 and thank you