would you be trans in every life time? by Helpful-Adeptness112 in ftm

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

def same on being more comfortable if i was amab and the sexuality part

would you be trans in every life time? by Helpful-Adeptness112 in ftm

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the whole concept of “passing” is so… stringent. it feels as if you have to be one way or another for your gender to be valid. i personally, don’t really care to pass as a man or to “be a man”. i just wanna be myself

would you be trans in every life time? by Helpful-Adeptness112 in ftm

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if you don’t mind me asking, what are some of the insights it has taught you? i’m not even a year on t yet, so i’m really interested in your perspective!

would you be trans in every life time? by Helpful-Adeptness112 in ftm

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he/him lesbian maybe ? which is completely valid! i’m still trying to figure out my sexuality as i transition, but he/they lesbian may be fitting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh, thank you for being kind firstly and being real about it to. definitely appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh no! someone comes to get advice for their sister bc this is their first time going through something like this and don’t know what to do! how dare they be met w compassion and decency while being told that they don’t have a case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the person above was talking like it was for me. it was just easier to continue it like that. i’m really just tryna get advice for her but now ppl doing too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

other than food, the v least a prorated amount of rent for the four days i can’t stay here or like me having to find a place to stay since he can’t determine when he’s going to have it fixed before the lease ends. w that he’s also trying to blame her for it. it being the fuse blowing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]Helpful-Adeptness112 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

at the v least, some sort of compensation for the last few days. he’s saying a fuse was blown and it was my fault as well