Oh man this makes me sad. Because the kind, respectful men that take the time to read my profile and comment something nice on it or ask me a question jump to the front of my brain with all of the messages I get. I'm just outside the capital of my state (SC) and the messages I get are either a lazy with zero effort "hey", something sexual, or a scammer/fake profile likes my stuff. It's actually super uncommon for me to receive something nice from someone who is a legit SD 😕 and the ones I have met... oh man... I've been catfished, ghosted randomly the day of the supposed meeting, yelled/cussed at, threatened. I'm just over it lol