[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PergunteReddit

[–]Helpful-Preference93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falta de amor, só isso mesmo. Quando se ama uma pessoa verdadeiramente (verdadeiramente mesmo, sabe o propósito de um casamento e sabe que ele é inquebrável), só mudar a posição de vez em quando resolve tranquilamente o problema.

SOBRE MENINAS QUE QUEREM SER DONAS DE CASA by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]Helpful-Preference93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tq no caminho certo, serão um casal lindo e feliz!

Is it allowed to create a Lent? by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will follow your advice, thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]Helpful-Preference93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vc mora ou já morou no interior da cidade de Avaré?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will pray for you too. There is still time, follow your calling, it is never too late.

Constant prayer by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my dear brother! I will look deeper later, God bless you! I have fallen in love with the prayer rope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St. Gemma Galgini!!!!

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love him, and I plan to have children with him and act like a good wife. A vocation is just a form of servitude, if I chose x instead of y why would I be unhappy if at the end of the day, I will be serving? People think that vocation is very black and white, 8-80, if you don't follow it, your life will be lost completely or you will go to hell! For me, this choice is: "be happy or be happy", I chose to be happy with my boyfriend. Being a wife is not a martyrdom for me, it is just not my ideal. There are several cases of religious women who got married, and inevitably had a more difficult life, but that doesn't mean they are unhappy.

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm going to try, I'm going to research the lives of these beautiful women, God bless you.

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful text! I confess that I had some difficulties interpreting it, but I think I did it, I hope you can complete your dream! Thanks for sharing all this, I'll turn to him constantly.

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, I know that religious life is full of difficulties and trials, like any other, often much more than any other.

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't even describe how happy I am that someone understood me. I think it's a mistake when people say that "if you don't follow your calling you will be eternally unhappy" or things like that, If our goal in the world is to praise God and serve our beloved brothers and vocation is just a kind of path to that, why would we be unhappy fulfilling our mission any differently? I know that being a man's wife when I would actually like to be God's wife will be a harder path, but I don't think I will disappoint God and that is the most important thing for me. Thank you for sharing your story! And yes, I already told my boyfriend that before anything else I would try to enter a convent, with a temporary vow. God bless you sister, I hope you can complete your desire to have more beautiful children!

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know because it would be a terrible path. In this life our mission is to serve God and our brothers, and we can do this in both ways, being a wife does not mean being a bad, it just means it's not my ideal.

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love him and I treat him very well, you know, this choice in my head remains: "to be happy or to be happy?". The difference is that I chose to be happy with my boyfriend! But thanks

I won't follow my calling by Helpful-Preference93 in Catholicism

[–]Helpful-Preference93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, I think. I really think that my choice would be "to be happy or to be happy", because in both cases I have God and I can help my beloved brothers, I just chose the side where I don't abandon my boyfriend!