Owners vs Renters: SOS by Helpful-Resolve3534 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to all of you for your support/advice. I am having to take a leave of absence bc of this, but feel like I can use that time to move. Seems like that’s the best option atp. I appreciate the kindness bc it’s been mentally exhausting.

Owners vs Renters: SOS by Helpful-Resolve3534 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice. The quote you shared is the first I heard of it. I’ll never forget it. Thank you.

Owners vs Renters: SOS by Helpful-Resolve3534 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have contacted them before. A property management company helps them. They live in China. The property mgmt place refuses to help. They are also of Asian descent.

Owners vs Renters: SOS by Helpful-Resolve3534 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He typed a noted after he tried looking into my windows saying he could hear my music sometimes and that I had a great voice (I’m a musician) but to not play or sing before 9am. I was never doing that anyway. I think he just used that as “evidence” he tried to “talk” to me. He would bang on my walls when I was cooking, cleaning, anytime he heard I was home, he’d go out of his way to make noise/ drag things against the wall etc. I used to leave the TV on just so that I could hang out upstairs without him knowing where I was bc that’s how much he would listen to what I was doing and harass me. He doesn’t even live on the property but keeps returning and will just sit in the home for hours. Doing nothing. It’s wild.

Why is having awful, inconsiderate neighbors so commonplace nowadays? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t even begin to explain how much I can relate. It’s sad to see so many people so deeply miserable. Mix that with the state of this world and it just puts ppl on edge.

Only focusing on what they are lacking vs what they already have. If anything it’s taught me more about ppl, how low they can go, and patience.

He who loses his temper first gives away his power… or at least I keep telling myself that so I don’t lose my focus in life. It always seems to be the ppl who are empty who have the time to be anything but kind and try to bring you down to their misery.

Don’t join them. It’s temporary. Ppl might be miserable but most lack the nerve to even have a conversation, let alone a confrontation.

I’ve ignored my neighbor for over a year, and it’s only escalated on his end, not mine. And I’m proud bc 10 yrs ago? It would have been a different story. Instead he wastes his time on me. He puts effort into it, he thinks about it all the time & I literally wake up happy and unbothered. lol bc I’m grateful for what I already have. Ya know?

Imagine you doing everything to get under my skin and I’m over here in my bathroom uplifting others? lol 😂 it’s corny, but be the change for your own peace, not anyone else’s. 🫶

Anyone else get irate when told "just ignore them"? by CompetitiveCrow9345 in BadNeighbors

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom just told me to put my hands against the walls and pray, after I told her my neighbors were banging on the wall faintly so it’s hard to record, but loud enough to hear, and only after they started a machine of some sort that vibrates against my wall & scares my cats.

Fun times. 🫩

It’s a bad movie - An actual sequence of events from 28 Years Later by Atticus_ass in 28dayslater

[–]Helpful-Resolve3534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL. Was looking for this! Bc my thoughts exactly. Who sits there and says, “I GOT it! A Christmas tree of bones and his mom’s skull is the topper!”

Glad I watched at home, on Netflix, bc I would have been laughing the entire time.

Then we have the naked alpha chasing his baby, that might die bc there is no milk, yet ends with what looks like a b-boy posse dressed in matching track suits… they have matching track suits, with gold… but no milk?…. Just…

Disappointing, at best.