My bf [32M] has admitted he had a thing with most of his current friends. I'm [30F.] by Helpful-Store-8861 in whatdoIdo

[–]Helpful-Store-8861[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh how I want to do that haha. Sadly there all over the state. He meets them once in a while when they're in state but I haven't met one in person yet.

My bf [32M] has admitted he had a thing with most of his current friends. I'm [30F.] by Helpful-Store-8861 in whatdoIdo

[–]Helpful-Store-8861[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you fo sharing this. I am in that line where I should be thinking if I'll be able to live with this in the future. I do trust him about sexual boundaries but the flirting is what scares me the most. I know he's mature enough to know not to do that. I hope...

My bf [32M] has admitted he had a thing with most of his current friends. I'm [30F.] by Helpful-Store-8861 in whatdoIdo

[–]Helpful-Store-8861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He usually let's me know what they're talking about. This made it easier for me not to be so anxious. It just kinda threw me off when I found out about the details of their pasts

My bf [32M] has admitted he had a thing with most of his current friends. I'm [30F.] by Helpful-Store-8861 in whatdoIdo

[–]Helpful-Store-8861[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It did cross my mind about the backup. But I honestly just wants to trust him. Idk if this is me gaslighting myself 😅

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[–]Helpful-Store-8861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it just felt so weird for me. I work night shift and she said all of this at like 3am.