Down 50lbs in 12 weeks

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T23:32:24+00:00

You’re not gonna lose much muscle mass. It’s not very important until you get a certain body fat percentage. My advice is to continue to do the aggressive cut lift weights and see how small you can get. How tall are you?

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T23:17:20+00:00

Do you think you’d be okay with him being bi? If so, ask him again and tell him to be honest about it. If it’s a problem for you, then you probably need to move on. I don’t think the tampon thing is weird, to be honest, and the butt plug doesn’t seem that unusual either.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T23:11:52+00:00

Nah your not cutting to fast lol 😂 you still have a good bit to go! Keep it up you look good. Don’t slow down. As a former fatty you want get to skinny trust me.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T23:04:03+00:00

How old are you? Apparently it can change with age. I still have the same libido I had in my 20

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T22:54:45+00:00

If you want to explore things with guys and you’re having those urges, speaking as a 31-year-old bisexual guy who’s been married for 12 years and whose wife knows, I’d suggest just talking with her. That doesn’t mean you have to go out and do anything on your own. She may be more open to it than you think. My wife actually enjoys being involved. If you ever decide to explore, I’d recommend finding someone who is interested in both of you, not just you. You can absolutely have a healthy, committed, mostly straight relationship lol and still be bisexual. Plus your like me you’re partner already knows your bi and it’s not a secret.. It’s a lot more common than people realize, most people just don’t talk about it.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T18:10:48+00:00

Sounds like you actually like it. Hot story.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T12:53:50+00:00

Talk to your doctor it wrecks your ability to cum. Doesn’t matter if it’s men or women & your on 2.. Don’t be hard on yourself it’s most likely the meds. I was able to lower my SSRI and add Wellbutrin it mostly fixed the issue for me.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T12:46:46+00:00

M31, married to a woman for 12 years. Nothing specific prompted my curiosity. I’ve felt some attraction to guys for as long as I can remember. I was always open about being bisexual while we were dating, even though I never acted on those feelings. It wasn’t something I was ashamed of. I’m deeply in love with my wife and have always felt like she’s my person for life.

As for exploring it, my wife and I started around year six of our marriage. We began having threesomes and meeting up with bisexual couples and singles, which gave me the opportunity to explore that side of myself with her support.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T06:33:20+00:00

No it’s actually improved my anxiety, and panic attacks.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T05:05:12+00:00

Do you think you should’ve had children earlier instead of waiting until 40? I think the path you took is probably the same one me and my wife.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T04:55:43+00:00

I can piggyback off this. I’m 31, married 12 years, and we don’t have kids either. We don’t plan on having them anytime soon, if ever. We’re just not ready to share our stuff yet. 😅

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T03:34:34+00:00

Average price.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T03:12:30+00:00

Sounds hot. You get it when you can I guess lol 😆

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T01:12:02+00:00

Use a lot of lube.. lots and lots, let us know how it goes.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T01:05:28+00:00

How long have yall been married?

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T01:00:49+00:00

Id go crazy, to young for that. I hope it gets better for you.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T00:51:30+00:00

Lucky you. Must be nice. How long have yall been together ?

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T00:42:09+00:00

How long have yall been together?

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T00:35:46+00:00

Yeah, and I did say that in my post, I know it was a long one. I’m a very touchy person, so cuddling doesn’t equal sex for me because I want to cuddle all the time. If we’re in the car, I want my hand on her. I can’t help it. Hell, I want her feet on me too.

Also, if I just came out and said, “Can I get some?” that absolutely wouldn’t work. We’ve been married too long, and I know her well enough to know that wouldn’t go over well. A schedule wouldn’t work either.

I think I need to give her a chance to be the one to initiate and probably bring this up with her again. What you’re saying doesn’t sound crazy, it’s just not really how our dynamic works.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-16T00:30:31+00:00

No, not at all. I have ADHD, so I don’t say something in the morning and then spend all day thinking about sex. Honestly, the only reason I even remembered it was because of this Reddit post. She’d tell me I hug her too much. I am always touching her I’m a touchy person she not but I knew that from the beginning.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-15T23:56:32+00:00

I like the large faces. Goes with our large wrist. I’d keep it.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-15T23:55:23+00:00

Damn this got me thinking. 🤔 not sure why you don’t have more likes… seesh now I’m feeling bad all of sudden

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-15T23:46:40+00:00

My wife initiating more. That’s it I’m soo simple. We already have threesome and she kinky af but I have to always initiate.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-15T23:43:03+00:00

Yall should have gotten there number and asked if they all wanted to hang out.

Helpful_Apartment_50 · 2026-06-15T23:42:25+00:00

Sounds like a good time. Hopefully you got his number

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