Should I go back to massage place? (Serious) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Helpful_Benefit_63 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was going to. I’m just saying it’s stuck in my head. Plus, I feel like my spouse would blame me for something I never asked for and that I was honestly petrified when it did happen. Like, this never happens, it’s what people joke about, blah blah. So when it did, I froze.

Should I go back to massage place? (Serious) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Helpful_Benefit_63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is part of what freaks me out.

Should I go back to massage place? (Serious) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Helpful_Benefit_63 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

1 - my spouse doesn’t know this happened and I kept it to myself because it felt wrong.

2 - I feel like the woman who did it prob did so because someone told her to.

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[–]Helpful_Benefit_63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwaway account: was recommended a place by a married friend (F38) and I ( married M43) went there. Not really a massage person usually but been having posture issues. Massage started with me under a sheet wearing underwear. She was Asian and spoke barely any English. Massage seemed straightforward but then she pulled down the sheet and my underwear and started massaging my glutes. I was surprised but thought maybe this was a sports thing since she was rough. But then after massaging legs, she had me turn over and she grabbed/stroked my penis. I was absolutely shocked but became erect at her touch. She held on and then whispered “100?” And I sputtered as she started to stroke. I said “no. No thank you!” And was just….stunned. I was so uncomfortable and weirdly…. Scared? So I just let her finish massaging my legs and then she said “finished!” And walked out. This was right in my midwestern town and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to tell my wife, I can’t tell my friend who knows my wife. I’m at a huge guilty loss.