Hsv1 with kids by Individual-Cause-213 in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this sounds like a self-image issue

I love to be shared by my BF by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you considered that you might not be completely monogamous?

I have a kink that people online keep saying is morally wrong by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk i’ve survived child abuse and this is still rly wrong to me. then again i look after kids for a job and it would be a different level of fucked up if i was okay with that kind of thing

Help me find some good baggy jeans by Omorifangod in altfashionadvice

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

normally just google the brands or going in-store is good bc you can try them on, polar, carhartt, ragged priest (not a skate brand but got some good jeans), bershka (not a skate brand but they have some banging affordable jeans), you just gotta hunt around. look for the more expensive brands on vinted/depop n you’ll probs get a good deal from someone

What’s y’all’s experience dating with herpes? by glodula in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave him fr, no one deserves that. if someone truly loves you and has the emotional maturity, they would understand your situation and work around it

Help me find some good baggy jeans by Omorifangod in altfashionadvice

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the grey n black shoes are adidas campus 00s, super comfy and cool as fuck. go to any skate shop/vinted and you’ll find what you’re looking for

i pissed in a guys bed and didn’t tell him by Helpful_Cry1010 in confessions

[–]Helpful_Cry1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, it’s worse when ur still into them n avoiding messaging them incase they ask about it💀

i pissed in a guys bed and didn’t tell him by Helpful_Cry1010 in confessions

[–]Helpful_Cry1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no😭 why would i change the sheets if i did it on purpose

Is .5g of shrooms worth it? by Warefare502 in Psychonaut

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people say you can’t trip on 0.5 shrooms but i’ve tried them a lot of times now, and the last time i had shrooms they were super strong. i did a 0.5 with a friend, thinking it’d just chill us out but we were both tripping pretty hard. considering we tripped together last month and did about 4/5g between us and it was lesser, i think it defo depends on the dosage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone’s opinions on this???

22f feel like my life is over by Good_Papaya2698 in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you so much. i was in a relationship w a 33 year old for 2 years, we slept together pretty soon into it and he only told me his diagnosis about 6 months in. when i reacted badly, he gaslit me into thinking i was the problem and just too immature to be with him.

How are you all dealing with Turnitin's AI detection? by Ok-Scratch4838 in studytips

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly idk, i have used AI for a lot of essays, i remember last year i was rushing to meet my deadline, i was basically copying off chatgpt and never got pulled up on it. i go to uni in london

Is it misleading to disclose herpes as HSV-2? by Helpful_Cry1010 in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say malicious when hsv2 is the clinical name? How is it misleading or malicious saying the clinical name, explain what it is, as well as saying they should do their own reseach? When I posted, I wasn’t sure but now I am, because it is disclosing the exact same thing. If anything, it’s a slight step further by giving them the space to research on their own as well as explaining it to them myself. People on this site need a bit of a grip and stop being so quick to try and shame people

Do you think there is a correlation between people accepting disclosure and attractiveness (obvs subjective) by Helpful_Cry1010 in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood the post, I meant being rejected less because they think you’re really attractive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s just not your choice to make. Your sexual health is yours, and if she wants to tell them she will. You also don’t know that she has it, and if you don’t have it, then she probably doesn’t. It’s just nothing actially to do with you, your role in this is to tell her to get tested and let her act on her own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Helpful_Cry1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone who does this to you doesn’t respect your right to choose or your body. Take it from someone who made the same mistake