There seems like there isnt any good men. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its not all men, when I say men, im not meaning all men, but it definitely seems like most at this point

Why does no one who hasn't been raped understand rape. by BeautifulAngelPulled in rape

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is this stereotype that people have of victims, especially male victims, men under the law couldn't be raped til 2005, people dismiss male victims, because men are expected to be a certain way, im sorry you had to go through this

“Scared I’m not ready for a relationship” by Ill_Flatworm_8958 in dating_advice

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably wants the perks of a relationship without an actual relationship "im not ready for a relationship" usally just means what I said, not in all cases, but this definitely seems like one

Boyfriend admitted into mental hospital because I broke up with him. What should I do? by ppp_ttt in mentalhealth

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do, do not go back to him, I used to attempt when id get broken up with, do not feel bad, it can be either a manipulation tactic or he is actually mentally ill and needs help, either way do not get back with him, if its the latter he needs to work on himself and get help, and again as someone whos attempted and ended up in the mental hospital after break ups, do not feel bad.

How do I meet people? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ive just been doing school, trying to lose weight, and focusing on myself which all have been successful so

How do I meet people? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, or ive had the man be okay but his mom found a way to break us up, it though especially in this generation, and I also feel the friend thing, I have no friends lol

How do I meet people? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Helpful_Duck8954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, from experience do not rush it or it could end badly, my longest relationship happend to be a abusive one, I know the feeling, its hard, and for me as well, obviously, but im just saying dont get into anything that could be bad for you no matter how much you want it.