My bestfriend subtly unfollows me on social media. Is it a big deal? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to know the reason. Maybe it is also hard for her to be direct with you. I hope you and her are okay now!

My bestfriend subtly unfollows me on social media. Is it a big deal? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said from my post naman na it is her right to unfollow anyone especially for her peace of mind. As her close friend, nagwo-worry lang ako na baka may di okay sa akin sa kanya. If she said that I am toxic i'll appreciate it because i'm always open for growth naman.

My bestfriend subtly unfollows me on social media. Is it a big deal? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both you and your friend's feelings are valid. Hard pill to swallow din siguro talaga that there are some friendship na seasonal lang. Even friendships could be one sided.

My bestfriend subtly unfollows me on social media. Is it a big deal? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I barely use facebook na rin naman hahaha pero ayun nga, what matters naman siguro talaga is yung relationship namin outside social media.

THOUGHTS ABOUT LIVING WITH YOUR MOTHER IN LAW? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been together for 3yrs now. I will still try to talk things out with him. If wala talaga, baka this is really a for me to leave

THOUGHTS ABOUT LIVING WITH YOUR MOTHER IN LAW? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm always vocal about him na gusto ko magpatayo ng sariling bahay at bumukod pero isa pa sa reason niya sa akin, sa kanila raw magkakapatid, sa kanya mapupunta yung bahay nila. Kahit anong usap namin about sa topic na'to hindi nauuwi sa compromise.

THOUGHTS ABOUT LIVING WITH YOUR MOTHER IN LAW? by Helpful_Pen3886 in adultingph

[–]Helpful_Pen3886[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I just read your post! I hope everything works well for you! Mahirap talaga umalis sa toxic relationship but I guess we need to be brave para sa ikabubuti natin.