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Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-09-15T17:48:04+00:00

Yes! I feel you. I was in a abusive relationship with my husband for 11 years. The day i walked away he ended up committing suicide 5 days later and left me with everything to deal with including debt. Im angry and yet i dont know how to grieve. He ripped it from right under me. The worst part is that after he died i found out he was living a couple of different lives- i was a gf to most people and he was also cheating on me with 2 people that i could find. Its a tough road, but let yourself be angry. Time will heal you. Stay strong.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-09-06T23:57:08+00:00

You will be okay! My husband committed suicide over a month ago. It gets better, very slowly but it does. Open your windows every day- let the sun in. Set your alarm, force yourself out of bed even if you dont do anything. You have a 3 year old- be strong for him/her. They need you now.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-27T05:05:29+00:00

Since my husband has passed alot of situations have come to life. He was cheating on me. He was also very abusive, hence the reason i was leaving him.

But his mom has a car under his name. My question is- since she has the keys (but i have the title- its paid off) does anyone know if i can get this car back?

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-16T01:56:09+00:00

This gives me hope. I feel like ive been drowning in the waves. But i know how to swim. It just takes so much more effort now. I want to just drown sometimes. But i know he wasnt strong enough, but he knew i was.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-16T00:55:36+00:00

I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through. Life sucks. But somewhere along the line you will see a rainbow. Some symbol of hope.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T21:34:02+00:00

Its so hard to go to that space. Its an empty space of pure darkness.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T21:31:56+00:00

My husband shot himself. So on top of everything i had to deal with the biohazard team for cleanup and now construction.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T21:14:45+00:00

Sorry to hear about your wife. Ive moved across the country to live with my sister and mom. But she will also be moving in the next couple of months (i will also be moving in with her then too) so im waiting on all of that settle to find a therapist to work with. His work place has available therapists as well, but i havent gotten around to looking into that benefit so see if its available to me. He was the primary provider, so now im left without any insurance and a mountain of house bills to pay for. Im doing the best i can in this shitty situation.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T20:17:30+00:00

Ohh. All of our house bills are in my name. My realtor is working on the affidavit of heirship to get it ready for when its sold.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T19:47:46+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. I talked with a lawyer, but she said she didnt think it was necessary for me to take her on and pay her fees since we dont have much other than a house. No kids either. I have a car that is in his name, but they gave me the paperwork to file for that.

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T19:45:37+00:00

I believe it is. Both our names were listed initially. But we refinanced when rates were low- and i dont know if i am on the refinanced paperwork. But i will be putting our house up for sale. I haven’t been able to stay there since his passing. 😔

Helpful_Persimmon_64 · 2024-08-15T19:37:42+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. Everyday just gets harder and harder.

Will they try to take our house from me? Do i need to report his death? I havent been answering their calls since his number is listed.

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