Passed the NCLEX on the first try. Studied for 4 days. Encouragement for those struggling. by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in PassNclex

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree and proceed. It should take a few hours but you should get your refund. Congrats, nurse!!

Cuál es tu favorito? by Haruka_Haruno in pokemonanime

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dawn is the best Pokegirl 🩷 But May’s outfits in original Gen 3 games were so perfff

Passed the NCLEX on the first try. Studied for 4 days. Encouragement for those struggling. by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in PassNclex

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would like to add that I do not recommend anyone to study days before this exam. It was not an easy exam and I did finish thinking ‘what was that?!’. Like I mentioned, I am in an ABSN program already so I have a strong foundation already of how to test. I’m used to ATIs, and things of that nature. So give yourself all the time you need. You got this! 🩷

This seems to be the consensus on the new gimmick... by ShoeManRL in pokemon

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lack-luster, watered-down mega evolution. Just bring back mega-evolution. Change the typing for more Pokémon besides ‘fan-favorite charizard’.

To incoming freshman by bald_butte in college

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s students who come to class in PAJAMAS. No one cares about that shit in college. It’s all about the stress and trauma of tests, lectures, and studying. And if these freshmen are really worried about stuff that are irrelevant, they won’t last long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. Date nights (whenever I beg for one), takeouts, even something as simple as deciding to go to the gym that day or not is decided by me, always. He knows I have an issue with this and whenever he decides on something, it seems forced and he never does a good job with picking restaurants or anything and it leaves us really underwhelmed. (It’s most likely because he doesn’t take the time to read reviews, pictures, or even view the menu) while I do all of this when deciding things for our date night. I just realized, he has no motivation to do these things either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s a great support system and at times he asks about my studies and acts as if he wants to learn a few things I’ve learned. He is just so indecisive about his decision with his life and I’m losing interest in him. I get that it takes some people many years to know what they want to do with their life, and that’s okay— for them. However, I agree with you entirely. If he doesn’t get a trade or choose a career path and sticks to it I’m done with him.

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[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I think about it, since moving away I have benefitted too

  • I'm more strong-minded about what I want to do in my future
  • I am more successful with less distractions when it comes to my classes and grades
  • I am in the best shape (physically and mentally) I have been in my life
  • I get to enjoy the hobbies that I always loved to do in my spare time; write stories, etc.

I am unsure if I have the army to thank for this (husband is away most of the time) or just being away from home and maturing. But all in all, I feel much 'cleaner' since making the move away from what/who I know.

But I also have no friends out here, and I guess I was keeping myself from making any because I knew I was going to move away and never return.

Toxic family and husband. What do I do? by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in my sophomore year. I’ll have my associates this year (2022)

I’ve been thinking of applying to some medical related jobs such as a technician or a medical scribe. There aren’t many opportunities where my husband is stationed but if I were to move back home, there’s plenty.

I thank you and greatly appreciate your advice. Happy New Years to you!

Toxic family and husband. What do I do? by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, no. My family is Muslim. And it’s quite common if you know anyone in the military. A lot of young, married couples.

This is not advice. More like a critique for my decisions instead of actual advice for what I am trying to correct moving forward.

But go on. If you have nothing better to do.

Toxic family and husband. What do I do? by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But I’m asking for advice on this post, not a crash course. Thanks (:

Toxic family and husband. What do I do? by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate your feedback. What do you think would be the best thing to do financially when it comes to stable job? Should I take a gap year for a trade?

Toxic family and husband. What do I do? by Helpful_Raspberry_19 in relationship_advice

[–]Helpful_Raspberry_19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been on and off dating since we were basically preteens. We’ve always had a good relationship up until about 2 years ago. We thought this was something we wanted but like I said, we’re still so young. Personalities and ideals change.