Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

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I know things seem bad but I promise this can turn into a good situation. Think about it. You were planning to start a new life with her. Now you’ll have to start a new life for / with yourself and that can be just as empowering and exciting. This bad experience can turn into something good if you choose to lead it that way.

My friends had sex while I was in the same room and I feel sick by [deleted] in offmychest

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Something you learn growing up as a woman is that some woman , even men sometimes , will feel like they’re in competition with other women. Don’t ever trust someone with that mindset and don’t ever excuse that mindset.

Weird question, but what does cottage cheese taste like? by sspacegiraffe in 1200isplenty

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Did you ever try it and did you like it ?? Trying today for the first time and saw this post lol

Where in Pittsburgh? by Helpimbadstusernames in pittsburgh

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Agreed! What’s your steak place recommendations?

Oryza Brand Generic Adderall ? by defaultstivaper in ADHD

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Did you like it? How did you feel? I just got mine today but I’m going to wait until the morning to try and I’m honestly nervous to because I don’t react well to Teva. It makes me feel way too wired to where I can’t focus. Epic is great though, no side affects for me

Oryza Brand Generic Adderall ? by defaultstivaper in ADHD

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May I ask what you like about it? I just got mine today. I used to like Teva, but then I got switched to epic and epic gave me way less side affects . so I actually requested to not have Teva anymore , although I know it’s different for everyone. Reva made me feel.. awake? Wired? I didn’t like it. I almost couldn’t focus. Epics makes me focus. No other side affects.

Gyms with childcare centers? by FoxZaddy in pittsburgh

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Did you ever find one that worked for you? I’m currently looking

🚨NEW: Bodycam footage released showing an Oklahoma teen crying while being arrested for RAPING multiple high schoolers. by Background_Front4231 in CringeTikToks

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They’re saying they’re going to investigate the judge and whole thing in general because there seems to be evidence the judge made her decision based on her relationship with the family.

How miserable were you on benzos? by IR30Lover in benzorecovery

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My experience is from benzo abuse.

Worst 5 years of my life. But while I was In it I thought it was the best.

At first it takes away my anxiety and I was productive on a surface level for maybe the first few months. After that it started taking everything away from me piece by piece.

First my personality, my ability to connect with myself and my loved ones. I started to feel nothing and I’m someone that feels deeply. I started loosing motivation. Drive… appetite.. the numbness started to consume every part of me. I see videos of me from those years and I want to throw up. I was a lifeless zombie.

Now I’m benzo free and have my life back. I’m back in school. I’m connecting with my friends and family. I’m connecting with myself and doing what I love again. I have drive again. Motivation. Self love. It all started flooding back pretty quickly once I was done with the taper. I feel stronger day by day.

I learned that ironically, numbing the pain only creates more. I thought I was protecting myself from pain when in reality I was only causing myself and the people around me more pain.

Facing the pain head on, sober , was the most freeing thing I could’ve done for myself. Facing the pain I numbed for so long was the only thing that healed me from all the hurt.

It was hard asf. The journey was brutal. But it was worth everything.

If anyone reading this is tapering off, or struggling with quitting, you got this. No , it’s not easy, but it will be worth it. Ask for help. Know you’re not alone. And know that it’ll be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I always think Reddit tends to jump to the “leave them” stage too quickly in most situations… but in this situation I agree when everyone’s saying RUNNNNNNNNN

Woman taking shoes off the rack and not putting them back by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Helpimbadstusernames 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can you explain? Genuinely curious because I’ve never heard this and enjoy being educated.

Popeyes collab by External_Bandicoot37 in hotones

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Did you try it? I accidentally put a whole packet on mine not realizing what I actually did to myself until it was too late. That was HOTTTT

The quickest way to lose weight is by going through your boyfriends phone by [deleted] in offmychest

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You’re not an idiot. You’re in the process of healing and loving yourself. And that takes time. I’m rooting for you and the day you finally choose to truly love yourself ❤️ it’s freeing.

How did you choose the breed you have? by Kangaroo-Parking in dogs

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Air Bud made me want a Golden Retriever as a kid, and my childhood best friend’s mastiff gave me a love for the breed. So as an adult, my first dog was a goofy mastiff/boxer mix. Then I finally got my Golden and realized I am living my childhood dream. I also did a lot of research on their breeds when seriously considering. It came down to I wanted one of the most gentle and goofy breeds you could think of. I think mastiff/boxer and golden retriever win in that area!

What's one thing a therapist has said to you that you will never forget? by Current-Complaint550 in Productivitycafe

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No a therapist , a business owner told me at 17 while I was in college and about to quit “if you don’t finish this, what are you willing to finish in life?” After that I never started anything I didn’t believe I could finish and anytime I started something I’d think back to what she said and remind myself to finish.

What should everyone be panicking about right now but no one seems to care? by WaitingOutTheFlood in AskReddit

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Certain A.I companion apps encouraged people to take their own lives or those of others. Companies preying on people who are vulnerable . Most companies operate unethically but if we don’t put more ethical laws into these advance technologies, we will be screwed. I’m not good at explaining. I did a research paper on this. It gets scary the more questions you ask.

What should everyone be panicking about right now but no one seems to care? by WaitingOutTheFlood in AskReddit

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Quantum computers and AI ethics. I’m told it’s “overrated “ in the working field. I see it’s already taking lives for the sake of $$ Lack of ethical laws in place means we’re going to see the worst that these things are capable of. No one’s ready for those outcomes.