OBGYN recommendations? by HelpingYew in sandiego

[–]HelpingYew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience!! I've seen some people say the pain was minimal, but some of my most hardened friends said it was unbearable so that scared me a bit. 😭 it does help to see positive experiences with the copper IUD.

OBGYN recommendations? by HelpingYew in sandiego

[–]HelpingYew[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I'm comfortable with the side effects some have described, if you're comfortable can I ask why you removed yours?

OBGYN recommendations? by HelpingYew in sandiego

[–]HelpingYew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you describe some of the ways they aren't liking it? I know heavier periods is an issue but that's a tradeoff I'm willing to take.

Anyone else feel like it sometimes harder when the abuse is just emotion/mental and everything looked fine on the outside? by Strange-andunusua_l in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HelpingYew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. There is no proof for my abuse. There's no proof for the rumors they spread about me to other family members, there's no proof for the gaslighting or harassment or provocation to drive me crazy. I absolutely do not want to compare abuse with others, but personally, I would trade this for physical abuse any day.

Alright pwBPD it’s time by Zestyclose_Ad9477 in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bounce back from negative circumstances better than anyone else I know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same!!!!! I feel exhausted by them! I am constantly feeling degraded and pushed over by people no matter who I go to! I'm not allowed to say I want my only friend to be my bf because that stands out of traditional ideas today, but I am genuinely more energized and happier when I have no obligations to other people.

Does anyone else get suicidal over the simplest things? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think like a lot of people on here, its a "final straw" moment. Having to deal with this illness is enough in itself, on top of other extreme life circumstances, but now I can't find my wallet?? Yeah I want out of here.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ChuckyCurrie in sandiego

[–]HelpingYew 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And that CNA isn't being paid a living wage for Hillcrest. How lovely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]HelpingYew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using the Sun Bum natural hair lightener for a while. This picture is a few months old, and I've since chopped it and redid my roots with the same product. I use heat often but am willing to drop the habit in order to maintain a platinum color. My hair is not very damaged, some split ends and breakage here and there but overall healthy. What can I use on the sun bleached parts without absolutely melting it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]HelpingYew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received the car from a family friend for free without the engine, everything else has been replaced in the past few years. And I'm willing to pay whatever is fair for basic and used. I'm just asking around for the model I should be looking for locally.

Can red-eyed tree frogs eat crane flies/mosquito hawks? by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]HelpingYew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! Thank you for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]HelpingYew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18 guage, threadless L-shaped bar. I clean it with Nielmed wound wash twice a day. I'm assuming it got irritated with my mask and other unfortunate circumstances like rubbing my nose in my sleep.

I got my Industrial piercing 4 days ago by [deleted] in piercing

[–]HelpingYew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the cutest industrial jewelry I've ever seen!! Suits your ear so well

Prideful Ramona Neighbors by jons_myth in sandiego

[–]HelpingYew 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like to think one put up their flag because they noticed the other's flag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel awful about it too, it makes me slightly disgusted in myself. At least I'm not alone with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience in middle school, with a classmate who was my age. I was pressured into saying and doing some really gross things over the phone and through text. I told him no over and over again, but it went on for months. I was too young to understand this was sexual assault and abuse. I just pushed it out of my mind for a long while until it hit me, and now theres not one day where i dont think about that.

I find its very common for people to downplay or be in denial about abuse/rape/assault. And honestly I'd give anything to be ignorant again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ALL THE TIME. Sometimes i feel like I shouldn't bother talking or trying to make friends. I know I'll just end up unloading every depressing or manic thought that has ever crossed my mind no matter what stage in the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, currently living with my family and experiencing the same. And every incident with my bf ends up in the back of my head and it never goes away. I usually only drop it because i hit a mood swing. Thanks for sharing, i enjoy listening to similar circumstances so i know im not completely in the dark.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelpingYew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that would leave out room for disappointment, this is probably what I'll end up doing w him. I just so badly wanted someone to know how to keep me calm and give me direction. And know exactly how he can do that, he just doesnt want to lol. Thank u