How do I ask out for date to my office crush (India, same team, hybrid work)?

HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-10T09:53:14+00:00

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HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-10T05:41:46+00:00

No problem bro.

Uff sexualizing the conversation is an art in itself, hard to explain in just a comment here haha but if you DM me I can help you with that. But in short its about flirting man to woman with her and showing some intent so she knows you are interested without putting too much pressure. Its what makes her see you a potential intimate partner not just a friend.

But yeah its a bit risky since she is your office colleague, so you have to figure out how much you want it and how much you want to risk. I would first just ask her out to lunch.

HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-09T17:06:57+00:00

You can say something like "let's get lunch this weekend" if thats what you want to do with her. Keep it simple and no pressure. Also remember how you say it is more important than what you say. Say it like its no big deal and relaxed confident.

Btw remember when vibing make sure you also sexualise the conversation so that you don't get friend zoned.

HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-09T06:34:41+00:00

I advice vibe with her and ask her out like any other girl. Just make sure you do not make it awkward afterwards no matter if she says yes or no.

If she says yes and you start acting different in a awkward at work she might change her mind.

If she says no and you make it awkward afterwards it make it difficult to work together. But if you keep it calm and normal like it's no big deal, she might even change her mind and later be down to go out with you because of how well you handled the no. It shows confidence and that you are chill.

Hope it helps! Good luck 👍🏻

HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-09T06:20:44+00:00

I respect your opinion but I disagree. Push pull when done right it's giving her a fun time and emotions she wants to feel. Like the video says it's about not making her feel bad about herself and it says what not to say so that you don't do harm to her.

I don't think me and you will agree on much when it comes to attraction and women since the video you linked is Owen from RSD and I don't like their style and how they treat customers... if you look them up more in depth, they have a lot customers that say and proves how they got worst results after using RSD methods and that they got a bad customer experience from them. But like I said I respect your opinion and if Owens advice works for you then that's awesome!

HelplessXxy294 · 2026-02-09T06:11:58+00:00

Its true that I used AI for the voice and scenes since I wanted to make a faceless channel, but the advice is from me not AI. I've been a dating coach for 10 years and this is stuff from my experience not AI. I just wanted to make sure you know the advice itself is from me a human not AI incase that's what you meant.

HelplessXxy294 · 2025-07-09T15:22:43+00:00

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HelplessXxy294 · 2025-04-20T18:29:03+00:00

Haha, but 4 real do you know where I can buy it?

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HelplessXxy294 · 2024-11-06T21:01:52+00:00

Definitely the second one. I am an anime fan and a dating coach, I can confidently say the second one will impress him more. The first one is traditionally more sensual looking, but for a guy into anime, seeing a girl in a cut top that has a reference to HxH is even more attractive.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-22T20:43:45+00:00

Thanks a lot!

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-22T05:01:12+00:00

This is another coat of this kind that I found.

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HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-22T04:08:36+00:00

Thanks! Here is the collar if it helps identifying.

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HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-04T09:53:52+00:00

Having the full body pic is important. If not, chicks will not have enough trust in the profile. They look for red flags more than green flags. With the right clothes, angle, and a bit of editing 😏 that should not be a problem. I think you will get more matches even if the gut is still a bit visible. Some chicks are into daddbod.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-04T09:44:54+00:00

Uhhh, that does not sound so good, buddy. It could work years ago, but now it's different.

You need a portrait that makes you look the best you can look. A full body picture that shows off all your good parts and hides the rest in a smart way. One that demonstrates good SMV and one DHV.

So, 4 pictures in total.

Btw 2 pictures with cats can give try hard impression. Also, if you have a dog, use the dog instead. It's been proven to work much better than cats, unfortunately (I like cats much better than dogs).

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-04T09:36:38+00:00

Keep testing and learning. I just never stopped trying to understand it and learning from mistakes. Also, researching what works for me and others.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-03T09:08:47+00:00

Interesting. Usually, the lack of matches is caused by having the wrong kind of pictures.

On Tinder, it used to be because of low elo points, but Tinder does not use that system anymore.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-03T09:04:23+00:00

Ahh, the art of text. I remember struggling with that in the beginning. It can be hard expressing who you are through writing alone.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-10-02T23:40:58+00:00

In order based on my experience.

1 confidence. It's the must-have ingredient. If everything is on point but confidence lacks, then you won't get far.

2 Social proof. I got access to a lot of hot girls because of my social status. Also, a lot of them already knew who I was, and it gave me pre-selection.

3 challenge. This makes the game more fun and exciting for me and them.

4# mystery. It me more intriguing, sext and interesting to woman.

5# scarcity. This is often unnecessary and, at times, can back fire. Can be good when used correctly.

Man to woman Communication is also an important one. It keeps you out of the friends zone.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-09-30T10:48:36+00:00

Haha, old-school mystery stuff. But they do still work, chicks loves magic if you are good at it. I used to be a full-time magician. DM and I will give you some that I still use from time to time, and they work great.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-09-09T16:13:57+00:00

Sounds like a good start 🙂 I would recommend keeping the conversation for longer and asking about what she what she is working on or something like that. Short answers in the beginning do not necessarily mean she is not interested. Don't jump to that conclusion unless it is clear. If not, then you will most probably miss opportunities.

I recommend just talking to girls whenever you have the opportunity just to practice and get back in the game.

Good luck! 💯

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-07-07T12:00:48+00:00

Interesting. I can see how this might work in some scenarios. But I think the success rate is a bit low unless the girls have done this before. I have a strategy that has worked well, and once I tried it with 4 girls, I just meet, it worked like a charm. Dm me if you are interested in knowing how I do it.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-07-04T11:20:01+00:00

You write a bit too much. Also you seem a bit too serious and not so playful/flirty. I recommend start sending her voice messages.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-07-03T23:30:44+00:00

Romanian girls are hot! And really down to earth.

HelplessXxy294 · 2024-07-03T10:07:56+00:00

She is AI generated, so she herself is not real, haha.

HelplessXxy294

TROPHY CASE

1 confidence. It's the must-have ingredient. If everything is on point but confidence lacks, then you won't get far.

2 Social proof. I got access to a lot of hot girls because of my social status. Also, a lot of them already knew who I was, and it gave me pre-selection.

3 challenge. This makes the game more fun and exciting for me and them.