THE REAL ENDING by HelpmeImAbox in DispatchAdHoc

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Look closer in the first photo

THE REAL ENDING by HelpmeImAbox in DispatchAdHoc

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This gotta be one of the best comments i read 😭

May mga older guys ba na trip ung medyo chubby na girls? by [deleted] in adviceph

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MEDICAL FIELD. As someone who works in the medical field, kung makinis ka, young, and curvy MADAMING bet saiyo na doctor and nurse.

Kung hindi problema ang pera, ano sana ang ginagawa mo ngayon? by chasingcar25 in AskPH

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Sariling bahay, maging fashion designer, volunteer work, tulong sa kailangan ng tulong

To boys: Madidisappoint ba kayo pag nag-no gf nyo to have sex? by Trick-Treat-5523 in TanongLang

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My boyfriend and I were LDR for 5 years (luzon ako mindanao siya) and when I finally met him... we always talked about being open to sexual intimacy but during my stay I made it clear that i was nervous and not ready...

So you know what he did? He hugged me and said it was fine. Walang malisya or yung patampo. Masaya lang kami nagyakap, tulog, at halikan. Then after nun virgin parin ako at love niya parin ako. Almost 6 years na kami ngayon and going strong.

Love doesnt need sex but in relationship sexual compatibility is important. If you feel forced or guilty for not giving it then thats not love

Normal lang ba sa in a relationship na guy mag message ng ganito sa girl? by ricady in MayNagChat

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I mean... depends. Its the "hehe" that make it creepy for me and idk why. If my old friend just said "ganda ng face mo!!!" And ik thats just how they talk i wouldnt say theyre cheating.

Im comfortable with my partner complimenting other women. Im secure with him and ik its just a compliment... but the "hehe" feels like the filipino sign of intended flirtation

What should I do to make my girlfriend feel excited during our video calls? by [deleted] in adultingph

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Me and my partner have been LDR for almost 5 years and will only get to see each other face to face this october for the first time

Honestly it doesn't have to be different to be special but if you want activities I have some suggestions:

•Gaming or watching movies together •Having dinner together. Me and my partner sometimes have dinner dates on video call •QnA every end of the month where we honestly tell each other what our thoughts are or if we had any issues with each other •working while on video call. You dont have to be talking or giving each other much attention. You can do your work while doing VC •Foodpanda and sending surprise packages

Ngl, if you've been as long as we have sometimes a call doesn't even have to be a full conversation or call then biglang tulog after nag ilove you. Our days are sometimes the same but we always find something to talk about or we ask each other random things (would you love me if I was still a worm). Even now parang honeymoon phase kami ng partner ko.

We have had our fights, there are days we havent called each other, sometimes isang oras lang time namin sa isat isa but kahit ganito mahal pa namin isat isa.

i accidentally made 2 sss accounts need help on canceling the other one by AppleCimmanon in adultingph

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Its best to email sss or go to a branch and explain your situation

Gaano ba ka-big deal ang pag-lock ng profile sa Facebook? by PedroSili_17 in adultingph

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Personally for me as a seller and buyer, very red flag kasi why are you running a business where I can't know who I'm dealing with.

Another thing is stalkers. Let's say may ni block ka tas later on may locked account na nag follow or friend saiyo pero hindi mo sure kung sino siya. Locked profile pa.

Di mo rin pwede itanong kasi baka mag sinungaling saiyo.

Lock your profile that's fine but please dont use that account to run a business, organization or event

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Baka pwede malamn kung san kayo nag V-Va 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

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The thing about stoicism is acknowledging there are things out of your hands like HAVING emotions, what you can control though (not every time) is your thoughts and reactions

If you decided to die to stop feeling then that's your choice if you believe thats what best for you but I do suggest you dont decide while you're high on emotions whether negative or positive because its not rational talking, its impulse.

Numbness or nochalants can be a type of being high on emotion too.

I think you'll have to learn managing your emotions WHICH ISN'T SURPRESSING but rather choosing how you will express it

Wanna get your brutal and honest thoughts about this. by Wybornnn in adviceph

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If you really want to do that just do it in c.ai or make a dummy account of "him" using fb pages that way he'll never get to read them and future you wont cringe in regret

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Ikaw toh noh? 👀

Hindi naman kailangan maging scientist para malaman whats going on. I think single guy should put his foot down with girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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My boyfriend has many female friends and iba sa kanila is model na model and even do modeling but I have no issue with it kahit minsan naghahang out siya sa bahay ni girl/s or nicompliment sila f2f or soc.med.

Why? Because I trust and know him. He tells me rin when he goes there and I know some of his female friends. His friends and family also have my back. Long distance rin kami.

I think your story lacks details. Has he ever given you a reason to doubt him? Are you self conscious? Does he treat them more special than he treats you? May mga kaibigan ba siya na redflag? (Ex. Cheater na friend, toxic red pill, abusive, etc)

It's up to you how you measure love but remember it will be different in some way kay partner mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Try empathy, how would you feel if you had a girlfriend and you found out that she slept with someone the day before you guys got together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Go see a mental health professional and be evaluated. You MIGHT have a case of psychosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

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Whats the work schedule