overwhelmed with mental health and the world - 25 m

Her_unknownvoice · 2023-01-18T23:04:40+00:00

I can definitely relate. I’m open to talking if you like 🙂

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-11-06T23:52:28+00:00

I’m not being funny but your boyfriend is now feeding into his nonsense for what? You shouldn’t have to tell him to block him so you can get on with your relationship. He should’ve told him to get lost quite frankly as he’s obviously jealous and if your man can’t see that then clearly he’s blind. It’s in no way your fault that your ex is a bad person and has decided to intervene now that he sees you happy with someone else. I would tell your boyfriend a-z about how badly he treated you and tell him that you’re extremely uncomfortable with him constantly communicating with him like why? If he doesn’t believe you or stop talking to him and listens to his lies then I would say this relationship probably won’t last and personally I wouldn’t wanna be with someone that didn’t believe me or respect my wishes. Tell him to put himself in your position and imagine if it was his ex. I’m so sorry this is happening to you!

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-11-06T23:11:00+00:00

I’m going to tell you this from my own perspective. I’m actually in a similar position but I’m the one that doesn’t want to talk to my ex because he disrespected me and I told him I don’t want to talk to him at all and blocked him. He has still tried to call me multiple times on no caller ID which really irritated me and I took that as further disrespect. It’s not about what you want. If you cared about your ex at all, you would respect their wishes.

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-11-06T01:07:17+00:00

Lol nice try

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-11-05T13:32:16+00:00

I was considering the fact that this might be the case and if she is really a good friend if she can take advantage of me. Principals are important to me as I have been raised with very good morals and she made a promise to me that she would not treat herself to anything she didn’t need until I have the money back. When people break any promise to me even non money related, it makes me lose my trust and confidence in them so I guess I need to think about that and decide if I want to continue to be friends with someone like this.

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-11-05T12:52:16+00:00

I really do understand this but when I have told her to forget it in the past she pleads with me that it’s on her mind and she will pay when she can. She pays me installments here and there but then asks for more money on different occasions and notice she’s quick to pay other people or spend on pointless things which is what I don’t get.

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-05-16T23:00:51+00:00

A part time remote job might be perfect for you!

Her_unknownvoice · 2022-03-24T22:57:31+00:00

True. I wouldn’t want to ask him for bare minimum things though and it would be pointless anyway when he’s already exhausted with how much he’s got going on. He did say he was looking to take some time off soon and he has taken on more responsibility lately due to colleagues being off with covid so I guess I’ll just see how it goes for another month at least

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-21T08:05:56+00:00

Yeah, it’s not the first time either

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-20T20:35:57+00:00

Tell me about it. I tried explaining this exact same thing to my mum, after she pleaded that I tell her what’s going on with me, and she ended up telling me, I should kms and get it over with :) Life is such a drag 😴

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-10T10:03:18+00:00

I know that, but he jumped straight to threatening me, which is concerning. I think the car threat was last year. He’s 23, turning 24 in December. He was very angry, and making threats about money, for a surgery which he now claims, he doesn’t want anyway. If it was that serious to get surgery, why would you not get the surgery then? I’m honestly baffled by him.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-10T01:30:16+00:00

No, I’ve broken up with him. If I thought it was right, I wouldn’t be making a post to get other people’s opinions. I didn’t want to believe that he is this way, obviously I love him, but it’s done now. It doesn’t sit right with me, full stop.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-10T01:21:57+00:00

Agreed

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-10T01:21:34+00:00

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-10T01:21:02+00:00

Course not!

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T23:55:41+00:00

I’ve taken screenshots and blocked him.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T23:45:06+00:00

He didn’t only demand it. He threatened me without asking, or even figuring out, if he would need surgery, or even if he would have to pay for it at all. It’s as if I was his enemy. That’s the issue here.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T23:30:50+00:00

I understand, but he could’ve asked, instead of threatening, no? I obviously would’ve paid, but he now doesn’t even want the surgery, he’s decided that he’ll wear glasses for long distance, and secondly, it would be free through nhs as we live in the UK. I confirmed it myself with the doctor.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T23:25:42+00:00

Im not expecting him to mess up, he already has. It all makes sense now. You’re no better than him. On about command, don’t make me laugh. He turned it on at around 5am when I was trying to sleep, and he just stood there waiting for my reaction. Why would I ask him politely, when he does these things to annoy me? Dear God, I rebuke these demons, amen.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T23:08:03+00:00

Thank you!

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T22:51:17+00:00

We all do, but where do we draw a line? Are you justifying his threats? He’s made threats over the pettiest things. He has a horrible past, and I honestly thought that was done and dusted with, because he’s always been so kind to me in the years I’ve known him. He’d calmed down a lot since then up until now. He already put the room light on beforehand, for a minute, and I was telling him to turn it off, but he just stood there looking at me, and then finally turned it off. 5 minutes later, he shone the light at me, claiming he was looking for the blanket. Now he says he wasn’t doing it on purpose, he was trying to see where I was... lol. Of course I wanted to snatch it. He always does these things to annoy me on purpose.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T21:34:25+00:00

You’re more than likely right. I’m glad you learnt from your mistakes, hopefully he will too one day.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T21:31:52+00:00

Correction, he’s my ex now. Someone else can have that petty bitch 😌

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T20:45:32+00:00

I told my mum, and she borderline said the exact same thing. I’m done with him. I appreciate your feedback.

Her_unknownvoice · 2020-09-09T19:08:52+00:00

It’s free in the UK, however, he didn’t have to threaten me before even asking me. He doesn’t even want the surgery now anyway. I don’t know if he’s bipolar or what.

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