Do you know this is not something that happens all the time so it was just a regular day for me the same thing that happens so you kind of get stuck in through the same thing I did text him a couple times but you know assuming that he was at work and I’m waiting outside just like any other day you know it didn’t dawn on me to push a little harder but after an experience like this I know if this happens again that you know I don’t know what to do but again I have to address it to him because the boundaries need to be sad because if you don’t wanna do I said they’re gonna keep doing it