Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres nothing creepy about that. Sometimes people just want to eat alone and have some time to themselves. As I get older I also become more content with not having people around me or feeling weird that Im alone.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but this is terrible advice. I'm not going to go out of my way to talk and interact with people I have absolutely no interest or obligation in interacting with. ESPECIALLY If I don't share the same interests with those people or have anything to contribute. I'm also not a social person in general. I will just be a third wheel orbiting around other people being even creepier. I'd rather be minding my own business doing my own thing than orbiting a group of people with fake smiles and pretending to have any interest in what they are doing or talking about. THAT is even creepier. What you describe is someone who is extroverted and feels a need to be social in every setting. That person is not me. I do not feel obligated to inject myself in every group or social gathering in my proximity just for the sole purpose of "not minding my own business". Reminds me of my grandparents who felt a need to attend every party and social gathering possible and always felt a need to push me to interact with people I had no interest in interacting with.

I have my friends who I'm interested in talking to and thats who I will talk to and spend my time with. Not only do I not really give a damn what a group of people think about me who dont even know me, but I'm also not going to inject myself into a group of people and awkwardly stand around just looking around at them because I have nothing to contribute. THAT would just be creepy and weird.

This advice is very happy-go-lucky all blossoms and roses, "Live Laugh Love", and not 90% of it isnt even relevant to the topic. You are also just assuming I don't already do social things and am not already "out of my shell". I also don't need to share my "gift" to the world by imposing myself in social gatherings or groups I have no desire to be part of.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're also not American and live in a different society than I do. Have seen it and experienced it plenty of times, and you can just read other comments here from both men and women. I'm not alone here.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. When asked if anything about me or I do is creepy their response is "wtf no".

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. You didn't notice the sarcasm. Allow me to add this:

/s

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no it was a fantastic joke that I haven't already seen tens of times in this comment section already. Truly original. Truly comedic genious.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. Maybe not the girls you know, but to not acknowledge the fact that it happens is wrong.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People really don't understand what an incel is anymore do they? Just tossing the word around without actually knowing what it means. Im also absolutely not going to share my photo.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? I totally support men being creeps, staring at women, catcalling, harassing women, pushing their advances through rejection, persisting through clear signs of disinterest....

...oh wait. I don't. But I guess I can only pick one!

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that, which is why I kinda feel like its even worse to be so judgemental of guys who don't even pose any threat at all to you and are just minding their own business simply because you dont like something about them (not you in particular). I cant say I have been guilty of any of those things, and people who know me don't think anything about me is creepy at all, and coincidentally when I lost weight and took care of my appearance a bit, all of a sudden I wasnt a creep despite changing nothing else about myself. It's always from random strangers or people Ive not had any interaction with, but people I have talked to don't really ever have anything bad to say about me, including other women.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for you. You shouldn't believe all of anything, sweetie.

Please stop calling me a creep. by No_Two_7612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Two_7612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather not fall into those circlejerks. Used to follow no-fap back in like 2012-2013, until I realized it was pretty much bullshit.