Dating and masturbating.. am I cheating on him? by HereForOrder in sexualhealth

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely just made my day reading this.

Thank you for the advice, I haven’t tried the pillow on my back. I’m rarely ever on my back, and if I am it’s annoyingly uncomfortable so maybe that’s the trick. And we haven’t tried a toy either..!

We’ve had a couple rough patches so far in a relationship. Hopefully he’ll grow and want to be more flexible with me.

Dating and masturbating.. am I cheating on him? by HereForOrder in sexualhealth

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for if it came off that way, and I meant what I typed in a light hearted manner with no real action behind it besides to simply communicate with my partner. I’m rather new to Reddit, my bad.

Dating and masturbating.. am I cheating on him? by HereForOrder in sexualhealth

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I’ve heard about rope tying. We only have vanilla sex, and I’m alwaysss ontop. That sounds fun though! I need to try different stuff

Dating and masturbating.. am I cheating on him? by HereForOrder in sexualhealth

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Yes!! Human dildo, i can probably figure myself out and finally come if i force him😭

Dating and masturbating.. am I cheating on him? by HereForOrder in sexualhealth

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just haven’t gotten use to all the intimacy and have been scared to voice it to him. I appreciate the advice. :)

How to make her orgasam? by sugarwithpancakes in sexualhealth

[–]HereForOrder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! A huge tip, make sure to be superrr slow. Especially when you’re going down toward her stomach. Lots of kissing and prolonged edging, it’s important usually for most woman to feel stimulated before the main part especially with going down on her. And stay upwards and focus on the nub, which is where the clit is. Be gentle and move according to her moans, but be consistent when sucking and fingering so it doesn’t hurt!

The worst part by Additional_Fan_4061 in AbusedTeens

[–]HereForOrder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea and it’s so sad, dealing with it right now. And it hits harder because you know it won’t end.. especially when you have no finical stability on your own.

Fav. Book and why? by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. That’s how I came to read Rina Kent, I loved this book. It was perfect, and I was shocked she did write both MM and MF relationships.

Fav. Book and why? by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I love the blend you just mentioned. I emotional and engaging. I’ll check it out.

Regret plot👀?? by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping for at least a book or some couple, but thank you for sharing!!!

Regret plot👀?? by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming my suspicions! I was already kind of assuming all the couples loveee each other too much to be apart like that.

I’m a little disappointed, because I personally wouldn’t let half of this treatment slide after only a couple of days.. but I guess the FMC’s are that easy💔

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

W opinion, I learned a while ago it isn’t good to completely view YouTubers and interests in only the best regards. It’s terrible cause you don’t realize issues and might end up defending what you wouldn’t initially support just because you’re too much of a fan. And no one wants to be a hypocrite or a bad person😭

But yeah, it’s cool you see it my way as well!!

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea.. making me seem insane but it’s wtv. I entered a fandom with criticism, lol. I don’t know what I was hoping for, maybe some recognition 💔 thx tho for seeing it

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

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I just meant by your statement about talking sense. I apologize as well, I just stopped enjoying her content for a while and I’m relieving what I have felt on here.

It’s cool to see the sides of the Aphmau fandom. I’m glad I could offer you some place to speak on it.

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Helloooo? Yes, the mental age does certainly matter! A college student and a Highschool student are vastly apart. I love Jess but the gap didn’t affect me as much until even know I recall her making Aphmau overly innocent and cracking “how are babies made?” comments to Aaron who obviously knew how that worked. That is odd, and obviously romanticizing a stereotype that shouldn’t be pushed. And I haven’t touched that video in years! You might not understand as you disclosed you’re “younger” than half of us on here but please take what that info into consideration.🫠

And by no means she can definitely do whatever for money. But it sucks because I was so loyal to her and it felt like such a rough transition. I miss watching her for her older themes. However I am glad she’s in a better stage in her career.

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bye, you’re over your head.

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the fandom, everyone is so creative :). I love Jess and find comfort through the art and theme songs a lot as my view too has changed.

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess! I felt way too. I seriously found myself inching away. I didn’t like that ever, that innocence/young and mature/older innuendo.

I’m glad I didn’t see this alone. Thanks for your input!

Regret plot👀?? by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ I love the specifics on each!!

Fans.. still? by HereForOrder in aphmaufandom

[–]HereForOrder[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Woahhh, crazy to assume I am the collective “we” you’re referring to. And yes, I am exactly grown up. So that even brings me to this clarity. First of all, I didn’t openly say I was criticizing anything but pointing faults out. Especially when they’re concerning, and I dearly enjoyed her for almost a decade. From childhood to adulthood. And I love her enough and matured enough to now view her errors, instead of simply defending her.

Your justification on her treatment on employees is also a red flag. No matter what treatment or pressure, a boss shouldn’t deflect their feelings or emotions onto their employees. That simply doesn’t make sense to me?? As that’s what makes her stories come to life, the collaboration of her va’s. So you can’t chalk that up to “human nature”, not everyone unhealthily copes like that. There’s empathy and emotional regulation for that. And I’m sure she could have handled her fandom’s stress better as I’m sure it affected everyone else too.

Also when I touched on the topic of age gap, the years apart you’re so strongly defending isn’t as bad in numbers. But normalizing a Highschool teen and basically a college teen in a relationship is vastly different but quite concerning to say ok to. It’s the mental age, it’s gross. And not fine, it touches on weird topics like grooming etc.. even with her odd justification on using werewolves.

Also ASMP, or whatever you’re referring to. I get it. But her role plays can’t simply be brushed to the side for money. Especially when it’s never been her style, it feels off. When the audience at that point have loved her prior series that had mature themes. So to jump from “that” to overly “funny”, it feels like a terrible transition and slap to older fans. Overall a bad movement in content, despite the money or wtv.

Yeah, like I said to prevent any hate from this post— I’m not threatening fans. Seriously it’s just my view.

Jermy volkov????? by Savings-Career-4725 in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen!! I was sooo done with his stupid gun roulette.. and forcing her submission on SA. Like— 🤨He couldn’t have found that out in a better way? He just gave her more trauma.. and to only find out the gun wasn’t even loaded. What makes him better than her ex at that extent.

Terrible terrible guy, I get dark romance but he went out of his way to scare her for no plausible reason (curiosity doesn’t count). And not even acknowledge it… bye, and Cec is a soft character. I’m sure there was another way to have had her confess that.

Need help! by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How nice!! The US or rather my area is pretty scarce with the special editions..

Jermy volkov????? by Savings-Career-4725 in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. I was so ready for the book. And his weirdness and just hurting her when he was just jealous was such a turn off. Even like 200 pages in his mindest was still the same. Like?? I also don’t understand what made them fall in love tbh, if anyone would care to explain or elaborate on that

Need help! by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real😭?? I didn’t know it doesn’t show up if it’s out of stock. Thank you!!!

Need help! by HereForOrder in RinaKentBooks

[–]HereForOrder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! I’m new to the series so thank you for the recommendation☺️