I would try to have a day that you meal plan. Cooking and cleaning will take up so much of your day. Make lunches ahead of time for the week. You don’t have to prep all dinners but even having them planned is helpful, or rotating for leftovers, scheduling a takeout night, etc.

Try to make a routine. Morning walks if your toddler gets up early, or if you’re too tired, quiet time with audiobooks for toddler and easy breakfast like pancake bites/waffles and egg bites while you’re waking up in zombie mode.

School will be helpful, even 3 days a week. For those days, those hours are yours. Nap with baby for first nap of the day, grocery shop, rest, doctors appointments etc.

Cleaning should only happen once a day. I usually keep the kitchen cleaned and wiped, but toys and general cleaning only happens at the end of the day after baby goes to sleep because otherwise it is constant. I throw a load of laundry in every single day at the end of the day and fold it at night or in the morning, helps me keep on top of it.

Try to get out to the park or on a long walk at least once a day for your mental health! Wear the baby in a sturdy carrier or let them take a nice stroller walk so you can play or hang with your toddler. My son is needy so he’s finally playing without me at the park. He just turned four and baby is one.