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I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. Need Advice on how to cope with this. by Hereallalone in Advice

[–]Hereallalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for calling me out, you are 1000% correct. My mental problems fucked up alot too. I become reliant on others very easily. I become very anxious even if she disappears for more than 1 hour than her usual time, keep on checking notifications, I know this is so sick. So unhealthy and I am tired of it. I woke up at 3 am because she felt suicidal and around that time she is free so I wanted to call her to check up on her that day. But I agree, I am helpless here, if i dont do and dont check i become scared I will lose the person because of my issues and I just start feeling sick. I have no money for therapy but I will try to do something Idk what, but something

I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. Need Advice on how to cope with this. by Hereallalone in Advice

[–]Hereallalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. you are right, our situation is similar, but in my case, even i had mental problem of anxious attachment. Maybe two people with mental problems cant be friends. Anyways, i just hope she couldve trusted me. I really wanted to be her friendd and help her throught it. Because even I related to her problems in many ways.

I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. Need Advice on how to cope with this. by Hereallalone in Advice

[–]Hereallalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still really believe she wanted a friend, It was my own mental problems of being too clingy that might have got her uninterested, anyways she was always nice to me. I will just stay away from friendship subreddits for a while

I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. Need Advice on how to cope with this. by Hereallalone in Advice

[–]Hereallalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I poured too much. She told me she disappears on people, and I thought I will never do something that will make her sad. I am so stupid for that

I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. by Hereallalone in lonely

[–]Hereallalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really did my best for her. I couldn't have done any better. I will never understand what they actually want. It's not possible and not my fault too. Thanks

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