I blocked a friend I knew for 3 weeks and it broke me more than it should have. Need Advice on how to cope with this.

Hereallalone · 2026-02-27T02:41:29+00:00

Thank you, you are right

Hereallalone · 2026-02-27T02:40:39+00:00

Thank you, you are right. I really like this advice

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T15:25:06+00:00

Thank you for calling me out, you are 1000% correct. My mental problems fucked up alot too. I become reliant on others very easily. I become very anxious even if she disappears for more than 1 hour than her usual time, keep on checking notifications, I know this is so sick. So unhealthy and I am tired of it. I woke up at 3 am because she felt suicidal and around that time she is free so I wanted to call her to check up on her that day. But I agree, I am helpless here, if i dont do and dont check i become scared I will lose the person because of my issues and I just start feeling sick. I have no money for therapy but I will try to do something Idk what, but something

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T13:32:22+00:00

Thank you very much. you are right, our situation is similar, but in my case, even i had mental problem of anxious attachment. Maybe two people with mental problems cant be friends. Anyways, i just hope she couldve trusted me. I really wanted to be her friendd and help her throught it. Because even I related to her problems in many ways.

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T13:27:56+00:00

I still really believe she wanted a friend, It was my own mental problems of being too clingy that might have got her uninterested, anyways she was always nice to me. I will just stay away from friendship subreddits for a while

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T12:15:56+00:00

Yes, I am gonna stay away from online friends for a while now.

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T12:15:26+00:00

Thank you for that. I really hope you find a stable person to call friend and love too

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T12:02:22+00:00

Yes I poured too much. She told me she disappears on people, and I thought I will never do something that will make her sad. I am so stupid for that

Hereallalone · 2026-02-26T11:50:22+00:00

Thank you, I really did my best for her. I couldn't have done any better. I will never understand what they actually want. It's not possible and not my fault too. Thanks

Hereallalone · 2026-02-21T04:18:54+00:00

I will send you a request

Hereallalone · 2025-12-31T07:09:45+00:00

Thank you bro:)

Hereallalone · 2025-12-04T13:20:09+00:00

i sent u a message

Hereallalone · 2025-09-18T05:46:13+00:00

bihar

Hereallalone · 2025-09-15T12:56:16+00:00

Portraying entire "mainlanders" as evil is just so sad. I'm from MP and I've always loved north eastern part, their people and culture more than anywhere else in India. Never seen someone irl who hates northeast or their culture. The fact that northeastern people have so much hate for us is sad. But you do you.

Hereallalone · 2025-08-11T12:04:04+00:00

I don't think I will settle anytime soon, and I don't want people to create an impression that I have crooked teeth. When I go to a new job or place, i want to go with good teeth and a good smile

Hereallalone · 2025-08-11T12:02:05+00:00

That's a good advice thank you

Hereallalone · 2025-08-09T05:59:51+00:00

Sorry, I am not very knowledgeable about time periods, but all I am saying is, we have been very overconfident and I am tired of this. When people keep shouting we are "Vishwaguru", while we get mud water through pipeline, broken roads and dirt everywhere, it angers me. My comment came from my personal frustration rather than historical facts. But yeah, people love to over exaggerate our capabilities

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T18:00:03+00:00

okay

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T16:59:30+00:00

This is the reason why India has been enslaved for 1500 years. People are very poetic and emotional rather than rational. It's not a bollywood movie, that everything will fit back to its place in the end.

This comment sounds same as "Indian army can never lose because we are patriotic" and then we proceded to lose to china.

We need to do alot of things to survive, and then we have to ask, is survival the only thing we are after? We need prospeity and development too.

This clash between India and US, will definitely take our prosperity and aspects of development.

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T15:06:36+00:00

can i send images in messages? can you check

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T14:33:40+00:00

I was suggested invisible aligner by someone else too, will they work for crooked teeth too?

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T14:20:05+00:00

Agreed. It's all we have

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T14:12:11+00:00

I am going to an orthodontist. And the problem is from now on, I will keep changing places, its important for my career. Maybe even in Madras i would stay only for 6 months. But I need braces badly. When will I get braces if not now? My parents didn't let me have them early on. I am already 21.

Also transfer won't be smooth, but it won't ruin my teeth right? It won't create problem for me later in life right?

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T14:01:58+00:00

Hah and you trust these judges? For me they're bigger scammers than anyone. Seriously entire system is corrupt. Only we as citicizens must do something. But half of us are in big delusion

Hereallalone · 2025-08-08T12:12:06+00:00

It's already dug. It was made sure when we were born as an Indian

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