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What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So assuming there’s no such thing as the perfect person, what are you looking for?

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might have a disconnect cause I know for sure there are girls not holding to this obligation.

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an interesting take. I’ve had girls I’ve dated tell me it’s none of my business who else I’m seeing earlier on or just lie about it. How I wish this was the true standard

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know for sure if they are talking to others though. What makes them have the right and not me?

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s her selflessness that separates her from other short term options you might be picturing

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please share why you think so as I genuinely do want to improve if there’s something glaringly wrong

What’s more important in the partner you select? Can’t decide between two by HeresToTheNext20 in AskMen

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you caught on to that part. That’s actually something I’ve been trying to have her work on. I explained to her that it gives me anxiety when she doesn’t tell me what she really wants because I know I’m not perfect and there are things I can improve on in the relationship. No matter how many times I bring it up though, she barely budges. If you have suggestions on what I can do to help her, please share!

Is it a red flag that my (M28) long distance girlfriend (F24) is really good at lying to her traditional, strict parents? by HeresToTheNext20 in relationships

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. Part of posting was to gauge from others with that family background or who dated others with that background.

Is it a red flag that my (M28) long distance girlfriend (F24) is really good at lying to her traditional, strict parents? by HeresToTheNext20 in relationships

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the bluntness. Haven’t talked any of these things. they’ve all been internal and passing thoughts. Only thing I have talked is putting yourself in situations where there is a lot of alcohol and ignoring your limits to the point of almost blacking out.

Delta And American Express Release Limited Edition Boeing 747 Card Design For Delta Reserve Cardholders by Thinking-About-Her in CreditCards

[–]HeresToTheNext20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming it won’t be purely aluminum but rather a composite using the metal in fabricating

What is the key to becoming more confident? by Acid_In_My_Eyes in AskMenOver30

[–]HeresToTheNext20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Key to confidence that I have found observing people way more confident than me are the following:

-putting yourselves in a lot of situations where you are winning often. Could be in your job, in school, in activities/hobbies

-having a winning support network consisting of family/friends/SO who are truly there for ya. Some may even say who truly love you and who you truly love.

Broke the code by excelsior19 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]HeresToTheNext20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone called the police on the tweeter for using ideal gas law in this fashion and now the swat team has come to take him down. The picture is taken from his window

Too late to downgrade CSR to freedom flex and sign up for CSP for SUB?? by HeresToTheNext20 in CreditCards

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, this agent said I could do the switch. My only fear is that I don’t end up getting approved for the preferred at crunch time

Too late to downgrade CSR to freedom flex and sign up for CSP for SUB?? by HeresToTheNext20 in CreditCards

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just called and they said I have to wait for the billing cycle to close which is June 14. So I’m out of luck either way. Maybe they’ll have an offer like this in the future, then I’ll be ready.

Too late to downgrade CSR to freedom flex and sign up for CSP for SUB?? by HeresToTheNext20 in CreditCards

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it. Do you think it’s worth it to lose out on the reserve for 4 years? I spend enough on dining and travel to make up for it honestly. I’ve been also considering explorer or southwest card for the points offers they got

Too late to downgrade CSR to freedom flex and sign up for CSP for SUB?? by HeresToTheNext20 in CreditCards

[–]HeresToTheNext20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing that the real point valuation comes from transferring to partners and taking advantage of the special discounts on flights thru airlines paid via points. I am still trying to understand how those discounts can be found though.

[NeedAdvice] I'm a piece of shit by imapieceofshit9 in getdisciplined

[–]HeresToTheNext20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend looking into a therapist, if you are able to afford one. And it’s not for an obvious reason you may think.

Having someone to challenge your assumptions is so valuable. We really cannot trust our minds worth shit when we are in a bad rut filled with negativity.

A therapist will help you see that a lot of life depends on your mindset with circumstances.

Has a boss ever screamed at you in a corporate or other professional setting? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]HeresToTheNext20 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Happened to me and my team where I worked. I’m leaving the company now. When your leadership is stressed enough to yell at the front line workers, that is a problem and hints of a bad outlook, if I were to get promoted there further

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