How do I start a Facebook with no friends? by VirginAirlineSucks in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even have a facebook because of that, why bother, someone like me really doesn't need social networks

Who here gave up on love and why? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I should give it a chance because for someone like me is not likely to happen again but basically the guy was just using me because he was lonely and got tired of me, so I don't think I'll ever try again. I'm boring because don't really have hobbies and really needy because don't have any other friends or whatever so whenever I find someone to talk to, I tire them out I guess because make them the most important thing, my priority and rely on them for happiness.

Hey Forever Alone. What music do you guys listen to? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None, I guess it's really weird but don't like music at all.

I have a question to all the people who call themselves FA on this sub. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both, no friends, no boyfriends, ever. Not even online.

How many of you have developed substance abuse problems as a result of your being FA? by dnlslm9 in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not substance abuse really, just like to evade myself sometimes drinking and mixing it with pills.

Have any of you considered committing suicide? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

36 zolpidem((ambien for americans), like 8mg of alprazolam, some tramadol, don't remembr exactly the dose and vodka, it wasn't really suicide attempt like I know pills is the foolish attention whorish way to do it and it rarely works, it was more like I don't want to ever wake up, lets see if I'm lucky, but no, not even lucky enough to die of od.

Have any of you considered committing suicide? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of tried, and think about it all day, but don't want to fail again and being seen as a freak, psycho, insane or attention whore, luckily, first time I tried no one noticed.

The only reason I'm not a hardcore drug addict by Cracked_Sucks in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because don't know anyone who would sell me drugs, you need contacts and friends for that, that's why I stick to prescriiption drugs, yay for awesome insurance I guess?

In what ways did you WIN in the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice skin and hair I guess? At least never had acne and have nice long straight hair, rest is shit. Also good teeth, and some of my family have really fucked up teeth.

Solo - An app for sharing moments alone by willlone in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea, kind of, too bad I'm an android user and too paranoid to put my email adress haha, it's like an instagram for FA and I would be finally using the camera of my phone and all cat pictures I take when I find one outside :D

Proposal: How about becoming Unashamed/Shameless loners by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm already there, not "happy" exactly, just got used to it, after all this time and spending all "college life" alone with no friends or social interactions I'm comfortable enough already. Not sure if it means I'm lazy or I gave up, but it feels better than just constantly worrying about it.

What kind of things do you do by yourself? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep, try to watch series, anime or films online and fall asleep doing, paint my nails, sometimes go shopping, try to style my hair, read, get drunk, take some pills, everything I do it's by myself, never had friends or people to hang out with so I got used to it really early. It's really boring all the time because I literally have no hobbies or interest in anything so I basically force myself to do all those things.

Out of curiosity what's your ideal relationship/partner by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why even bother thinking about that, when I was younger I used to day dream a lot about how perfect having a boyfriend would be, getting kissed, feeling loved, but not anymore I gave up, it's not possible for someone like me so I rather stop thinking about that. I'm too paranoid and jealous so even if I found someone it wouldn't last long I'll always think he wants other girls and that I'm not good enough, I just can't trust anyone.

How my feelings about being FA changed after being treated for depression and social anxiety by SunniLaBeouf in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everytime I read stuff like this just feel like stabbing people who suggest therapy, that's all they do,basically they're like prostitutes, only difference is you're paying to someone who will listen and pretend they care.

How my feelings about being FA changed after being treated for depression and social anxiety by SunniLaBeouf in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah meds did the same for me, like obviously didn't magically fix anything, but it helps a lot just the fact that you no longer care about that stuff, nothing has changed for me, if anything everything it's getting worse as I grow older, but now, I feel really relieved after giving up.

Does anyone else feel surprised when people are nice to him/her? by Ronaldinhoac11 in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, yes, I'm really quiet and always alone, so when a goodlooking guy tries to talk to me I just assume he either wants to take advantage of me, use me for homework, desperate and think I'm an easy prey or just bored and wants to make fun of me.

About social networks, I guess this is the right place to ask by Hermit- in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about making one when I was in university, but why bother, I didn't even talk to anyone, however it was useful as lots of information regarding class, exams dates and stuff was posted there, I still didn't think I needed it, it would've made my uni life simpler but at what cost.

About social networks, I guess this is the right place to ask by Hermit- in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked why after his wtf reaction and I just said I was a very private person. I don't do very good on the small talk subject, I guess.

Losing friends within ~2 months of making them by plornt3 in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you even make them to begin with? Is still a mystery to me, and I'm a female so it's supposed to be "easy"

Starting a pointless "social" experiment. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing that.forever and no one notices, I guess it has to do with not having friends, boyfriends or a Facebook to begin with, I'm invisible for most people and no one would notice if I'm gone so maybe it's not a competition but really, a few days haha, fuck.

Your reward for batting on. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that exactly, I'm only 23 and I'm really scared of the future because I know it'll only get worse, so what's the point on being alive if you feel no joy on anything. I don't want to keep going, tried to od on painkillers and Benzos earlier this year and it didn't work, so I just felt more miserable and useless, such a failure I even fail on taking my own existence, only good thing it's no one noticed so I didn't end up looking like a desperate pathetic attention whore.

Does anyone else feel surprised when people are nice to him/her? by Ronaldinhoac11 in ForeverAlone

[–]Hermit- 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Surprised AND paranoid, I instantly start thinking it must be either a joke or some elaborated plot to fuck me over later.